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AdultAlexandraFire

Long, Desperate Begging for Donations Post.

Okay, so… Like, I really hate to beg like this, but I am pretty much out of options since my mother is going to extreme lengths to dodge my trying to get her to pay up to the debts she forced on me while trying to make out like I owe her for being queer and for “ruining her life” and “corrupting her daughter”, I’m going to basically beg and plead for anyone who has a few dollars to spare to maybe feel bad for me and throw some spare change at me.

tl;dr version: need over $9,000, most to pay back debts my mom forced on me, partly to fix a problem resulting in the financial strain and lack of car knowledge I have. The reason she opened so many accounts in my name? This stems from the fact her and her husband already owed many companies thousands of dollars, and no one would trust them since they never paid their debts, so they decided to run my name through the mud, all the while treating me like sh*t.

Here's a donation link: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_donations&am... All money donated via this link will go directly to paying these debts. If by some miracle, I get enough to completely settle them, then the rest goes to my car, and I close this link, because at that point I'm safe.

Like, I really, REALLY hate begging for money like this. I feel bad for doing it, but the stress from all this is just, overwhelming. Between work, school, and the crippling debt and financial crisis I'm in now is just, so stressful... I know I owe people commissions, but that's been a bit of a feedback loop of stress. I am too stressed to produced my best work, because my commissioners and patrons deserve better, then I feel bad for not doing art, then I get more stressed... See where I'm coming from?

Anyway, sorry for a super long post. Thank you if you do want to help, and even a dollar would help me like so, so much. It gets longer, but the rest just goes in to specifics, and you don't have to read if you don't want. (You don't have to read any of this, but if you did, thanks so much, and please spread if you can)

I mean, so there aren’t just vague ideas of how my mom has screwed me, let me give you an idea of exactly how much my mom has screwed me in no particular order.

She had 3 accounts opened in my name without my consent, one with an electric company, one with a cable company, one with an insurance company. She also took over an old savings account I have and overdrawn it after locking me out by changing the pin and stuff, thanks to my own carelessness years back.

The electric company is owed nearly 5 thousand dollars, because my mom and her husband never paid, and I didn’t make nearly enough to pay it for her when I lived with her.

The cable, lightest debt of them all, about 300, because my mom paid JUST enough to stop them from shutting off the cable, because she couldn’t go without her premium cable and internet packages she got in my name.

The insurance company, my mom opened up an account in my name for her husband’s car and expected me to pay it years ago. And now, they want another 2 thousand of unpaid bills after the insurance got canceled.

The bank account, which I am completely locked out of, is overdrawn by about $200 last I was told, but I haven't been able to ACCESS it, so I'm in the dark about the status of that.

So, what I am saying is, my mom has gotten me on the hook for about $7,500 of charges.

That’s not the worst of it. On top of that, I also currently need about $1,600 for car repairs to make my car able to pass state inspection. This point isn’t just to earn more sympathy. If I can’t pass inspection by June 30, then I am screwed, as I need the car to get to work and stuff. Now, that number is an estimate based on new tires and genuine parts. I can settle on cheaper alternatives, and will, when I can find them.

Now, there is a bit of good news, that the electric company is willing to grant me some time to make either payment or get my mom to court to prove she opened the account illegally in my name, but I don’t have money for lawyers or anything, plus the other accounts won’t wait for me and are continuing to gain interest from being unpaid.

Although, if I start oayng them and I do eventually get my mom to court, I suppose I could still get her to pay me back from the money I would pay to the accounts she forced in my name. I just need them off of me. And, starting to pay them, will probably help in the long run.

Now, I'm also considering a couple options a couple friends suggested to me. Both taking a title loan out against my car, or declaring bankrupcy. Now, um, the former is scary, since my stepdad already sold my car to some shady title loan place once, again against my will, and while that got resolved, it was after my car was almost reposessed twice during non payment, and that was super scary. And bankrupcy is basically, declaring defeat, and I'd rather not give my family ANY satisfaction of admitting any kind of defeat to this situation they forced on me... So, I want to avoid either if at all possible.

If you read this far, thank you so, so much. And I hope, if you have even like a dollar sitting around, you could help. I'd super appreciate it, and I hope to be free of this nightmare.
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Added: 6 years, 10 months ago
 
HydroFTT
6 years, 10 months ago
I'm not sure about the specific laws, but have you tried talking to a lawyer about this? There's no way something like this is legal, it must count as some kind of identity fraud...
AdultAlexandraFire
6 years, 10 months ago
It's 100% illegal, but there's the complication of my family now living in another state that makes it hard for me to sue them. I know their address now at least, but that's all I got besides phone numbers.
HydroFTT
6 years, 10 months ago
That's why I'm saying you should at least try to talk to a lawyer, they tend to have ways to get the information you need. A private investigator can also be utilized with as little as a name, much less an address and phone number, to gather information needed for a case. I mean, it should be pretty obvious these accounts weren't being used by you, though.
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