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ItsyMitsy

will delete later

lately i've been getting treated poorly by randoms- such is the fate of all humans i suppose- but it seemed to pile on a lot over the past week. the past week where i've been exhausted and sick from mysterious health ailments that honestly just made me feel absolutely horrible. like utter trash.

please, for the love of god, try to remember that artists are people too? like, with families? and health problems? not everyones situation is going to look exactly like yours. i don't appreciate smugness, rudeness, or making jokes at my expense just because i need help. you have no idea what my day to day actual life looks like, where do you get off on being so rude?

and by the way, begging for free art in my dms or telegram isnt going to be entertained. its one thing to ask, but its another to hound me for it and call me horrible things when i ignore you. jesus christ.

like i said will delete later. but jesus. can't a girl have a few days where she's struggling with her health and be left alone? just for a few days? i'm back online now, and im very thankful for the people who were understanding of my slow responses and absence. i try not to complain publicly anymore but i just needed to get this off my chest. its unbelievable how rude people can be the moment you aren't a beacon of perfection.
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Added: 1 week, 3 days ago
 
PaydayWolf
1 week, 3 days ago
That's absolutely disgusting to hear. I'm so sorry you've had to put up with this BS, Mitsy. You're utterly fucking outstanding and deserve so, so much better.

Please don't let those losers cloud your view of those of us who absolutely adore you. We're exceptionally grateful for all your hard work and you deserve to be treated so much better. You are utterly magnificent, and that's a fact that'll always be true.

Thank you so much.
ItsyMitsy
1 week, 3 days ago
what an absolutely lovely thing to say... thank you. i wasn't fishing for compliments or anything like that, but its very encouraging to be given some positive praise when things have been so tough. thank you paydaywolf, i really appreciate your kindness more than I can express!
PaydayWolf
1 week, 2 days ago
You really deserved more praise and care, but I didn't want to come out swinging too hard. You certainly weren't fishing at all - you magnetized them, because you deserve them. You're an exceptional person who makes this lil' floating rock we call home, a better place. For me, for others - for anybody who ever experiences you, which is a lot more people than you'd think.

Life sucks fucking ass most of the time, but people like you help to make it that little bit more bearable. I could never thank you enough for that, since simply saying the words "Thank you!" really don't... carry the weight I want them too. But words don't exist to truly encapsulate the actual feelings I, and others, feel. So the best way to do it is to simply go on a long diatribe about it... (Hmmm ;3)

But seriously? You fucking rock. Go look in the mirror and admire the utterly outstanding person there. You're a star that lights n' warms the worlds of others.
beforethefall
1 week, 3 days ago
Hear, hear!!
KrystalTentacion
1 week, 3 days ago
I’m very sorry to read that, it’s disgusting how people seems to not have empathy anymore
Especially towards struggling artists, please take all the time you need <333
fur1essshe1ter
1 week, 3 days ago
I agree with you. Some people don't have for ANYONE nowadays. Artist or not
fur1essshe1ter
1 week, 3 days ago
Empathy I mean.
DedicatedYokai
1 week, 3 days ago
People are way to comfortable with the anonymity of being online and use it to be absolutely disgusting human beings.
fur1essshe1ter
1 week, 3 days ago
Don't listen to those haters. Just focus on your health. It's more important
beforethefall
1 week, 3 days ago
Sociopathy seems to run strong in internet randos. Remember these aren't representative of a community, they're just an unfortunately loud part of it.

I hope you can make it through unscathed. Bans and blocks are annoying to have to emplace but eventually they're effective in quieting the bullshit down.
sixthseraph
1 week, 3 days ago
Miserable assholes always seem to love making other people miserable. Hopefully your health problems let up and you feel better soon!
RathMutatio
1 week, 3 days ago
Kill em with hammers, gurl.
You know you deserve better.
And get well soon, pretty unikitty. <3
KevinSnowpaw
1 week, 3 days ago
first priority is to take care of your own health and wellbeing.


those people being rude are complete ass holes and not worth your time or attention, but I completely understand your frustration and disgust.
SamanthaIndigo
1 week, 2 days ago
This! ^^^^ <3
KevinSnowpaw
1 week, 2 days ago
Based Skunk Girl Approved!
SamanthaIndigo
1 week, 1 day ago
All your based are belong to us. :p
STYXGHOST
1 week, 3 days ago
sorry to hear you have to deal with people like that, sadly those same people are also the same all too happy to come and make up false accusations and all that other kind of stuff when they don't have their way, f em, their loss, don't like? move along, no need make a fuss about it and harass people

would love com if i could,  but different currencies, tight finances on my side, and the current situation with payment processors (paypal now shutting down accounts and keeping/stealing money for daring purchase NSFW content) getting in the way, so for now plenty happy enjoy sexy, kinky art

hoping and wishing for the best, things get better for you, and everyone around you, those "people" bitching, whining, comlpaining andbegging are not worth your time or attention
Remmy4warlord
1 week, 3 days ago
this reminds me that I need to commission you again, I loved what you did for me of Baby, and would love to see you draw my other characters too. I am so sorry that so many rude people are bothering you.
FluffySeaVixen
1 week, 3 days ago
You matter and you are awesome! Please get well soon! *hugs.*
SpoonFox
1 week, 3 days ago
There's so many who openly think Artists are machines and Art is just free for them to abuse. They cannot equate you're not some corporate entity they can bitch about, you're a single person trying to survive. This has been a problem for a very long time, it was a problem when I was part of the fandom almost three decades ago when people would pitch fits over an artist going missing for a week or two for medical or real life problem reasons.
This doesn't make it right, though. Many of us do better and try to preach better. You're not alone, Mitsy. Get well soon.

EDIT: It also doesn't help people have this entitlement problem... Where they treat you like some worker they can abuse... That mentality is there too... *sigh* There's also the "Work even while sick" crowd that were battered with that mentality by capitalistic minded boss-types and parents... It's unhealthy. Take care of yourself... For without you, there is no art.
gnagger
1 week, 3 days ago
The Venn diagram of people who will come out of the blue unsolicited and beg you for free art, and the kind of people who will just insult and demean you for no reason at all, especially if you say 'no', is almost a circle. Fuck these people. I hope you get better, and NOT just because I love your art. Geez.
SenGrisane
1 week, 3 days ago
That's not ago okay. Jeeze so many pathetic people that have nothing going on so they gotta harass someone else.
HairtriggerHyena
1 week, 3 days ago
I know it's easy to say "they're randos just ignore them" but I feel you, it still feels bad to even have to deal with v__v I think you're great and you deserve all the nicest randos instead >__<
HorsePonyMail69
1 week, 3 days ago
You are amazing love everything you do !
SloppyChimera
1 week, 2 days ago
Sorry to hear that.
moyomongoose
1 week, 2 days ago
To me, they come off as spoiled brats who certainly take audacity to new levels.
LittleWindTerror
1 week, 2 days ago
I had to deal with a second life issue like this "Waterdeer" and i told her not to give in, thats what "THEY" want you to do is leave or what not. I am EXTREMLY loved in Second Life by multitudes of communities within Second Life for this. I am known as families teddybear Aka Janus and cassiopiea within SL is greatly valued there. People always come to either or, or all 4 my accounts asking me for advice i have one strongest fair judgment, if i can help, I can.... Sometimes theres situations where i'm unable to help but still think on situations and suggest things to do/say. As a RL person, i'm easily gullable and easily taken advantage This is how I become disliked here by many and they dont care to get to know me at all. Just because "Janus does what he does," Doesn't mean I RL person act the same. This what most my friends on this site although act like im okay but i get the oppasate feeling cause they don't talk to me nor care about my well being i myself almost left Inkbunny for the very same things that your going through (except im labeled as unsafe person most peoples eyes here) even bunnyqueen wont invite me to cub discord servers as i too feel she deems me unsafe.  My favorate artist one them refuses to do commissions anymore, theres people that never talk to me because i once associated with another user here that they hate and spreads it to where 20+ people hate me. Theres just too many things in the world that will get you down. Don't give up like i almost did......... You stay strong.... Sticks and stones will hurt you, but words will never physically hurt you. Mental state maybe but thats where i grew strong, I lost my second life mother Sammie Ravenhurst recently (RL)  and i didn't show much any emotion, doesn't mean that i didnt care, She taught me to be emotionally strong.  Although when those reading this that fear me here, I'm dead set they wouldn't care or start contacting me. Overall Stay strong donb't give in don't let those trolls affect you any way shape or form, If it's just words, they can't physically hurt you. For me my train of thought If they fear me or dislike what my OC's does, Fine, But when it comes to targeting individuals behind the OC's then thats diffrent.  Just because OC's does things it shouldn't mean the actual person to be hated or anything and basically 90% of those in IB that does, followed this path just cause my OC's does things it automatically means individual is targeted.  Stay Strong and if you need any advice or someone to talk to contact me ill reply asap. Here or any platform.  
PS: if theres any "E"s missing in my words then double "E" shows up, It means my "E" buttons messed up in my typing.
Coonfox
1 week, 2 days ago
Remember that people who have never met you, know nothing about you, and only seem to have hate in their hearts are sad, lonely, miserable people who only seek to spread their misery to the rest of the world. Their opinions are less important and less substantial than a fart in a hurricane.

You are better than that. Better than them.
MockeryLloyd
1 week, 2 days ago
I fail to see why people see artists as nothing but machines that pump out art whenever. It angers me to hear that they treat you like this. Don't listen to these losers, take care of yourself.
wollypegger
1 week, 2 days ago
Please remember that there are idiots who desire to hurt people and some of them have bot farms.
Sadly you can't do more than delete / ignore / block / report them because they got the means to generate more accounts on the cheap.
You deserve better treatment.
axlegear
1 week, 2 days ago
Same, but all bots.  Still only get maybe 1 or 2 messages every 3 months.  But lately it's just been a sudden influx of 2 or 3 bots a day, all saying some heinous shit.

Here and much, much worse on FA
PFGFrankly
1 week, 2 days ago
those people dont know what the economy is now a days. just the worst of people

if people do free art asked them if they do commissions then likely they dont do free art.

just stay safe man
WillCoon
1 week, 2 days ago
Fuck 'em.
Saglinger
1 week, 2 days ago
Rather not.
moyomongoose
1 week, 2 days ago
You're right... There's a risk of picking up a host of rare incurable diseases from people like them.
SamanthaIndigo
1 week, 2 days ago
What if the attitude is the disease?
moyomongoose
1 week ago
I would see such a person as being the disease.

A walkin' talkin' disease.
Saglinger
1 week, 2 days ago
Always sucks when people kick you, but especially when you're already down.

Sorry people are doing that to you.
R0XIZ
1 week, 2 days ago
I wish that people would leave you alone. You don't deserve such insults for doing what you love to do
LordHeadassThe13th
1 week, 2 days ago
I've never understood people begging for free art, and especially getting rude or confrontational about it.
Like dude, being an asshole will not convince the artist to do something for you for free. Be thankful you don't get blocked and banned from even offering to PAY for art.
pinkbutterfree
1 week, 2 days ago
Some people are just shitheads and assholes. I hope you’ll get some peace from that kind of crap soon!
SamanthaIndigo
1 week, 2 days ago
Many others have echoed what I'd want to say. Please take care of yourself first and get RL in order. <3

Worry about online later.


Best wishes to your health.
Smolfoks
1 week, 2 days ago
Its ok to vent sometimes
Danisaiah1
1 week ago
*hugggles* you deserve better than being harassed by losers *nuzzles* you deserve lots of snuggles and pets :3
KrashKita
5 days, 11 hrs ago
Sorry people are trash. I'm a big fan and love your work.
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