Red flags. Somehow, I knew it would go this way. He pushed too much to get married. You don't tie the knot after only six months. There are just way too many red flags, not big ones before now, but small ones.
Red flags. Somehow, I knew it would go this way. He pushed too much to get married. You don't tie th
"You don't tie the knot after only six months" Bad people can reveal who they really are once they're married. It's been six months since they started dating. A study showed it takes around six months to know whether someone is marriage material or not. https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1805327115 These characters in this story don't have the luxury of waiting longer like humans do. "There are just way too many red flags, not big ones before now, but small ones." Study shows when you're infatuated, you ignore warning signs despite seeing and knowing them. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2017-39258-000
"You don't tie the knot after only six months" Bad people can reveal who they really are once they'r
"You don't tie the knot after only six months" Bad people can reveal who they really are once they're married. It's been six months since they started dating. A study showed it takes around six months to know whether someone is marriage material or not. https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1805327115 These characters in this story don't have the luxury of waiting longer like humans do. "There are just way too many red flags, not big ones before now, but small ones." Study shows when you're infatuated, you ignore warning signs despite seeing and knowing them. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2017-39258-000
GrimArt, it's important to consider that the timeline for deciding marriage suitability varies widely among individuals and cultures. While a study may suggest an average of six months to determine if someone is marriage material, this can't account for the complexities of every unique relationship. Here are some points to consider:
1. Individual Differences: Psychological research acknowledges that there is significant variability in how quickly people can make sound judgments about a partner. The six-month figure is an average, which means for some it might be shorter, and for others, much longer. The depth of the relationship and the quality of the interactions are critical factors that can't be distilled into a single timeframe.
2. Coping Mechanisms and Cognitive Biases: Humans have a range of coping mechanisms that can influence how they perceive potential partners. It's not just being in love or the excitement of a new relationship that can lead to overlooking red flags; sometimes, it's our innate coping mechanisms. To avoid feeling overwhelmed by too much negativity, we might unconsciously pay more attention to positive traits and dismiss the negative ones. This focus on the immediate can sometimes cause us to miss warning signs that become clearer over time.
3. Life Experience: A person's life experience plays a significant role in how they perceive red flags in a relationship. Those who have encountered similar warning signs in the past may be quicker to recognize them, while others might not identify these as red flags at all. It's not a straightforward process of recognition but a complex interplay between past experiences, current situations, and future expectations.
4. Contextual Factors: In the context of the comic's characters, if their lifespan is short, this could necessitate a different approach to relationships and milestones. However, this does not inherently mean that potential issues should be overlooked. Characters in a story, like people in real life, may weigh the risks differently based on their circumstances.
While studies provide valuable insights into average behaviors, they can't encapsulate the entirety of human experience. The decision to marry is highly personal and can be influenced by a multitude of factors beyond the scope of any average timeframe for assessing compatibility. It's the interplay between cognitive biases, coping strategies, and individual life experiences that often dictates our perception and response to potential relationship red flags.
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so, this is off topic, but is she wearing a top? or just topless? Im confused cause i see a line like maybe she is, but its the same color as her fur? also, i do not like him.
so, this is off topic, but is she wearing a top? or just topless? Im confused cause i see a line lik