" | RokukeShiba wrote: |
Easy to say tree lady, im homeless |
" | PervyNerd84 wrote: |
However, it's entirely on the parents for their reaction. Parents who gave a DAMN about their kid actually cared for his future, wouldn't shun him as Nigel's parents did. This situation is on THEM!! I'm floored people still blame the Tree of Life. She's not all-seeing, and even if she was, she wants Nigel to come to a choice of his own will. At most, she can be blamed for not explaining things, but at the same time, but even if she did, would that change how Nigel's folks reacted? They're traditionalistic-perfectionist's and shunned him the second he wasn't perfect. Given the way his parents are, would they even listen to the Tree? They strike me as the arrogant type who might even scoff at the Tree for dismissing their 'will' since their family supposed has been Guardian's for generations. They act like it's their inherent right, all they're doing is making sure the next generation are good guardians, how DARE she speak ill of their parenting methods? |
" | On what do you base this assessment? So far, one candidate is basically homeless, another from an alchemy school, another an orphan; apparently the task can be assigned to people from all walks of life. |
" | That can be a problem. Alot of children are pressured into taking on roles because they were forced to, or because it was expected of them. Even if they enjoy it, it's still a problem. |
" | You keep saying this, but it's not what happened; she didn't "fail" him. She only told him that he needed more preparation and time to self-reflect on what he was doing. This does not denote a "failure." |
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To tell him what he needed would have robbed him of learning it for himself; to reflect on his goals and come to an understanding. And it was his lesson to learn. How his parents reacted is not her fault. There's nothing to indicate that she had any vision that this would be the outcome. Even if she did, there's no reason to assume that confronting his parents would have made the situation any better, and no guarantee that it would have made things worse. |
" | It's never that simple. Boiling it down to a nonsense equation robs the context of fault in a situation. Then again, it's also why you can throw around blame effortlessly like this: |
" | Inaction is indeed a choice that can be just as potent, if not morseso, than making a choice to begin with. But it is by definition -not- "manipulation |
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