This is gut wrenching. I want to give him a big hug, and let him know that help is out there. Life can be "normal" again and there are people he could call friends that he can talk to about his issues without hurting him or coaxing him into worse things.
This is gut wrenching. I want to give him a big hug, and let him know that help is out there. Life c
I can see this either kick starting him looking for help...or leading him to do something...drastic. While it's completely well deserved and warranted, I think she could have worded it a little less destructively.
We'll just have to see what kind of path he takes from here.
I can see this either kick starting him looking for help...or leading him to do something...drastic.
actually it could get even lower then this, for example him begging her to love him but getting rejected for being to old, holw dying and Sam hating even more for it, then the mom keeping him in her house only out of obligation, with him becomming so depressed and isolated with nobody loving or even wanting him and him deciding to kill himself, even worse is if that suicide doesn´t end up working and him becomming a cripple unable to move any of his limbs being useless and helpless for the rest of his life
actually it could get even lower then this, for example him begging her to love him but getting reje
I can understand but cannot condone Sam's behavior here. He walked all the way to the hospital. Why would that be I think? To apologize? To try and explain himself? To ask for help? To confess everything?
I won't judge her for being angry, but being a gatekeeper like that and just shutting people down is just... ugh. I can't stand people like that. I hope Sam's anger doesn't control her like this.
I can understand but cannot condone Sam's behavior here. He walked all the way to the hospital. Why
Before you criticize her anger and how it controls her actions consider how she was willing to move past him barging in on her giving howl that handjob and how he got angry that he was left out and accused her of lying about her asexuality. I would be livid and she was willing and able to just straight up pretend it never happened and hang out like normal the next week.
Howl was bleeding out and at risk of dying and leto was drunk as fuck and masturbating. He didn't even stop when she barged in on him as far as I can tell and given he had to walk to the hospital he sure as heck didn't bother to go with howl. Her anger and actions here are 100% justifiable.
Before you criticize her anger and how it controls her actions consider how she was willing to move
Justifiable, yes, but gatekeeping like that it not something I've ever condoned. If someone genuinely feels guilt, if someone genuinely knows they screwed up, you at least owe them an ear if not your forgiveness. I've seen anger like that completely warp people to insanity, and ruin plenty of relationships.
Like I said, her anger is justifiable but I cannot stand gatekeeping like that. As for the hand job incident, it didn't seem like anger, more so humiliation. They figured repress everything to try and save their friendships, which didn't help anyone in the long run, and coming from experience, being shut down is much more harsh than having someone demand an explanation with beratement. This isn't going to help anyone here at all, but I agree that Leto was of no help period.
Justifiable, yes, but gatekeeping like that it not something I've ever condoned. If someone genuinel
Now is just not the time. He has shown enough that he cares by walking there and im sure she has taken note of that. But she wants nothing to do with him at the moment and wants to focus solely on being there to support howl. Given how leto got so fucked up he couldn't even go with them to the hospital initially I think it's fair she gets first dibs at being with howl.
If howl actually wants to see leto though and she prevents him from doing so then that's when I take issue with her.
Now is just not the time. He has shown enough that he cares by walking there and im sure she has tak
That's kind of what I'm fearing tbh. Someone so burned by hate that they try to get that person out of not only their lives but those they care about. Personally I feel that Howl's mother - who's been sat next to Sam - may intervene in the next page, especially if Sam starts ranting at him.
Either way, lets hope tonight/tomorrow's page will turn out well.
That's kind of what I'm fearing tbh. Someone so burned by hate that they try to get that person out
