Welof asked those questions, so thought I would give it a try, but it was hard actually putting anything together on such a subject. It's a hard question for someone like me who is nicknamed "Puddlepup" and has stress incontinence. Especially since last night I put my cloth diaper and my kitty onesie (which meant I was nearly caught, as my parents don't care for my closed door) and it make me feel babyish and I wet the Dalmatian diaper a bit... So not sure this FAQ will be that useful, but here it is. I tried to be clear and offer real advice.