I cannot say to have been unlucky in my life with relationships.
Yes, I never got the luck to find a final stable partner… hopefully something that will happens in my life.
Moreover, I could say to have experienced multiple pleasures (some kinky ones too!).
It occurred to me to “friendzone” someone in my life. It is not something easy to say to someone: to drop all his/her hopes (both if we’re speaking of emotions or just sexual attraction) and even if we don’t know much this person, he/she deserve politeness and a good amount of tact.
Today I suffered a truly humiliating “Friendzoning” from a girl I know from some time.
She is younger, pretty, and we have been together: while our story ended (we shared interests especially concerning movies and literature), we kept in touch for chats, further exchange of interests (about new books and movies etc.) and occasionally some friends-with-benefit sexual fun.
With time it was clear to me she did not felt very attraction toward me.
I do not think to be poorly gifted in this side (moreover since 2 years I worked more on my body and gained some in terms of physique), the issue was she saw me more in terms of the “wise older friend” to instruct, lecture and learn things, than a fuckbuddy.
I have usually ignored some stories she told me of other fuckbuddies she met sometimes: guys she appreciated just for physique and little to zero emotions.
Then since last fall, our meetings increased in frequency: we made some more kinky games (with new stuff I discovered to appreciate) and we mutually experienced a brief rebirth of feelings (I admitted it; she said to have felt a bit too).
Then recently the big change: an older man, she consider extremely attractive due age difference. No problem I said, previously we met with her having two different fuckbuddies…
She also stressed how she feels nothing for this guy, so I was honestly more intrigued than anything else.
Yesterday however she said she wanted to see me: told me the guy was ill, and spent the evening to sexually tease and hints on me, well… more than hints considering she shared nude pics of her. Something she never did before. I did not hide to her how this made me quite excited, and told I longed to see her today.
And today… she basically stressed me on face, how she could feels no sexual thrill with me because my showing of a “teaching/instructing” side of my personality. And she spent literally 45 minutes to make sexual praises of the guy in question in face of me, ignoring my hints and plea to stop this.
It was honestly humiliating, I never experienced this.
I know some pervy furries in cuckold (who probably will read this journal) would dream for such situation, but this is not the case.
Both because I am quite dominant on a sexual point of view, and both because I cared for her… and she made the worst possible choices in telling me what was in her rights to say.
I do not think it was intentional on her side, she can be quite reckless in speaking and dialogues and I think that was the same (talking without thinking to consequences).
My journal would like to be a message to fellow furries that if you will ever ends in a situation when you needs to deny feelings or sexual attraction to someone else…
Please CONSIDER their feelings: honesty is right, but consider you’re talking with someone who love you or sexually desire you and even if it is your rights to say “sorry I don’t feels the same”, you’ve to respect such person.
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04 Apr 2017 16:56 CEST
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