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KevinSnowpaw

We lost her.

about 2 days ago we got a call telling us that my Aunt had taken a sudden turn... we expected this since she was on hospice for Dementia and it had become difficult to get her to eat anything...but the otherday we got another call informing us the doctors were giveing her maybe 72 hours...

Sadly last night she passed.

So..I have a lot of fond memories of my Aunt...Im gonna be quite for a little while now...and im really worried about my uncle...without her around I dont know what he will do. I have allways been a little worried that she was a big part of why he was still stubbornly kicking along and I absolutely adore my uncle out of everybody in my famly he and I are perhaps the closet in personality.


he still has his daughter, my cousin and her children though...so I hope he will continue to want to be here...

anyway im going to be ok...I just need some time.


So yeah...fuck Dimentia...fuck Alzhimers...fuck Cancer and heart disease...


be with your close ones.
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Added: 2 weeks, 4 days ago
 
MaineCoonBoyo
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Dementia is really one of the cruelest jokes that our brains can play on us :( thinking about you and your family as you grieve and process everything <3
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
honestly... its fucking evil yeah.
Chucky
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Sorry for your loss man. We lost my grandmother to Alzheimer's when I was in junior high.
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Im sorry Chucky :( thats a terrible time to lose a loved one..you young it hurts even more...At least I am an adult, it SUCKS but... I can handle it... I can process it.
ThaPig
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I'm sorry to hear that. My condolences.
Try to remember the good memories you have of her, before her health declined.
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
thankfully i have mostly fantastic memories of her.
beforethefall
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Sorry for your loss, dude. Dementia is brutal.
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
yeah DX i worry the most for my uncle
Liquidhalo231
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Aww, I'm really sorry for your loss Kevin, I hope you'll be ok
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I will be ok...
LillyTigger
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I am so sorry for your loss. Someone very close to me is getting dementia and I know the road ahead will be hard. Take all the time you need.
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
its a horrid thing to watch :( prepair yourself for it.
eliteshyguy
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I'm sorry for your loss.
Sammermax67
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I'm truly sorry for your loss man. I don't wanna sound like an insensitive prick, that's not my intention at all, but thankfully the ending has already happened for her. She won't suffer anymore. Now she is in a better place, devoid of pain and suffering. That's how I see it at least.

That being said, I want to send my best wishes to you, your uncle and the rest of her loved ones. Hope y'all can keep going and cope with the grief. My deepest condolences, and lots of hugs to all of you!
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
your not insensative. Nor am I so fragil that I cant tell what you mean. Thank you ^^
TheDevilishDouble
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Happened to my Grandma last week… only difference was that foul play might have been involved with my cousin :/
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Christ I hope not :(
Minibit
2 weeks, 4 days ago
*gives a hug* im sorry for your loss
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
thanks man...it's rough...I liked my aunt quite a bit to.
Honeyaze05
2 weeks, 4 days ago
*Hugs tightly.* I’m sorry for your loss too.
Tycloud
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I am so sorry Kevin. My grandmother had alzhimers and she stopped recognizing me when i was around 16. *hugs*
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
thankfully I was not with her when she got quite THAT bad if she ever did...but i saw her like just last year and she was fine just a little forgetful...
Andybanez
2 weeks, 4 days ago
condolences </3
Auzzie
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I am so sorry for your loss, it's never easy to lose a loved one, but if any comfort comes for this sadness is that she is not suffering from her ailments any more.
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
i know...i know DX
Auzzie
2 weeks, 4 days ago
*hugs*
FradandJimsAdventures
2 weeks, 4 days ago
My condolences Kev.
ZirronPack
2 weeks, 4 days ago
You have my condolences.
CuriousKit
2 weeks, 4 days ago
My condolences to you
KevinSnowpaw
KevinSnowpaw
.  Alzheimer's is a horrible disease - I lost my grandmother to it... well, she lost her mind but was still physically fit; it was pretty sad to see, because she was such a strong, stubborn woman before then - I called her the "Iron Matriarch".  When she finally died many years later, I felt relief more than anything... she was finally free.

Treasure each moment with your loved ones... you never know which one will be your last. *gives you all the cuddles*
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
i dont know what I will do when my mother goes...she is in her 70's now...and I still depending on her a ton...she depends on me a lot as well...when she goes It will be the worst thing thats ever happened to me.
ShadowTheDarkEmperor
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Sorry for your loss man. You'll be in my prayers
Snowfirechakat
2 weeks, 4 days ago
so very sorry for your loss
RobbieWallace
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I'm deeply sorry for the loss of your aunt. You have my condolences and those of everyone. I'm here for whatever you need.

KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
thanks. Sadly theres really nothing anybody can do...I still appreciate the sentiment however.
BlazeHeartPanther
2 weeks, 4 days ago
So very sorry man, I wish your uncle and you the best.
Fusionxglave
2 weeks, 4 days ago
*hugs You* truly sorry for your loss.

Jinxy198
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I’m so sorry Kevin, so so sorry. I really wish I knew what to say right now but hope it at least gives you some comfort.
thekzx
2 weeks, 4 days ago
*hug*
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
thank you man...

Im ok for now but.. sometime in the next 48 hours this will all suddenly "get real" and i'll become a bawling fucking mess XD
thekzx
2 weeks, 4 days ago
We're here.
FumblingFoxpaws
2 weeks, 4 days ago
My condolences. :/
Bigbabyabdl
2 weeks, 4 days ago
sorry for your loss
ilyaszegrab
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I'm so sorry for your lose *hugs*
KNIFE
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Take comfort that she's out of pain and suffering and
with her family in a much better place. (hugs tight)
ZwolfJareAlt306
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I’m so sorry. :(

*hugs*
DrgnHybrid
2 weeks, 4 days ago
People understand. Take care of yourself Kevin. 91 and 84 respectfully and I really hope that my Grandpa goes first because I worry more about my Grandpa wanting to stay around if my Grandma is the first one to go.
Kuchirimmer
2 weeks, 4 days ago
*draws Kevin into a big bear hug.* "Sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. "
kemix1006
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I am so sorry about that man. All you can do is hope she went peacefully and hope she had her affairs in orders before hand. Take y our time.
AurumG
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Fuck. I'm so sorry to hear this. It's never easy. I've lost two loved ones in the same way.

Hug your loved ones, cry when you need to.
thecangel
2 weeks, 4 days ago
My condolences, *hugs* she was able to bring peace to a good place....
I know that Alzheimer's disease is really hard,
ShanetheFreestyler
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Dementia has to be the worst. While cancer may be more painful, you're at least aware of what's going on. But dementia? Alzheimers? You're slowly losing yourself, literally.

I'm deeply sorry for your loss, Kevin. I lost my grandmother this way, and one of my great aunts and uncles. I can say just the same, FUCK DEMENTIA!
SpaceShipEarth
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I lost my mom on September 12th, so I know what you are going through *hugs*
KevinSnowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
that is incredably hard to deal with.
TuxGen
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like your aunt was a really strong and supportive person in your life. Losing people like that is always a horrible punch to the gut. I've lost both my parents now, but I'm lucky enough to have many loving and supportive aunts and uncles who've shown up for my siblings and I time and time again, so I know how precious relatives like that are. Sending love and support to you and your family.
CherryFeathers
2 weeks, 4 days ago
-hugs- Sorry to hear.
DodgerSquirrel
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I'm sorry to hear this Kev.  Though it sounds like you were very close to your aunt and had a very positive relationship with her, cherish those memories.  
SageofFables
2 weeks, 4 days ago
I'm sorry to hear that Kevin big hugs to you and sorry for your loss.
YukiYoshida
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Sorry for your loss. Hang in there. I know its hard now but as time goes by it does get easier. *gives you a hug.*
Lnarra214
2 weeks, 4 days ago
Very sorry to hear. Hope your Uncle is okay.
nelson88
2 weeks, 4 days ago
My deepest condolences to U and UR family...*snuggle hugs*
KennyKitsune
2 weeks, 4 days ago
*holds you closely*
KodiShadowpaw
2 weeks, 4 days ago
So sorry for your loss, Kev
DollyCloudy
2 weeks, 4 days ago
My condolences, hoping you and your family the best with getting through this.
SenGrisane
2 weeks, 4 days ago
My condolences.
RagingSemi
2 weeks, 4 days ago
my parents hide it but since my great grandma died and she had Alzheimer's. She died in 2022. Now my parents have downloaded apps to help stimulate their brains and surprisingly both are enjoying it at times. In the car at times or in bed together as i check on them. They do not have any of the issues but they want to avoid or lessen the probability of it happening.
I hate Alzheimers alot
BogdanUrs
2 weeks, 3 days ago
so sorry to hear about your aunt bro :(

at least your aunt isn't suffering anymore

but this won't make it any easier for her loved ones
thecooler
2 weeks, 3 days ago
I am so sorry for your lost!
My family recently lost a loved family member to Alzheimer, (she was my Dad's Aunt but she was like a second grandma to me) she totally age regress to a toddler almost and cried a lot, when she could not do all the things she could, even simple things like counting or speaking words, its horrible indeed. she was a pianist a teacher and a very sweet person, who loved cats, saved cats, and she did not deserve to go the way she did, atletas she and her family are now finally in peace, she was taken over in less than a year after she was diagnose with that dam disease.
I am so sorry for your lost!
Sk8erBoiTy
2 weeks, 3 days ago
my condolences dude
Tanna
2 weeks, 3 days ago
I am sorry for your loss :( I remember my great grandmother having dementia and it got so bad us kids were not allowed to see her in her last year or so because of how bad it got.
CrystalMendrilia
2 weeks, 3 days ago
I'm sorry to hear. *Hugs* Mourn, do it your way.
SomebodyDontAskWho
2 weeks, 2 days ago
May she rest in peace, Kevin :(
Travelmaster
2 weeks, 2 days ago
My deepest and most sincerest condolences to you and your family.
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