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HarmonyBunny

Am I Even a Bisexual Anymore?

I've been questioning about my Bisexuality lately, and I don't know if I could be considered myself as one anymore.

I tried looking up furry female art to feel some kind of tingly vibe, any kind of reaction at all, but no dice. Contrast that to the male art and I was like: "DAMN, HE'S LOOKIN' MIGHTY FINE-" The only females I'm more accepting are the cute and cuddly ones, but not in a NSFW-type of way.

I also believe that the ongoing trope in animated movies involving "strong, independant female leads" play a role somewhat. I get it, they're cool and all, but when the male lead gets pushed around, I often feel sorry for him. Not every girl is flawless, y'know.

But back to the subject matter. Considering the overabundance of female fetish/NSFW art and my more preferred taste in males... I think I might be considered actually gay? I identify as a transgender man but I haven't fully transitioned, yet I still favor men over women. Not to mention most of my comfort characters are male (Bugs Bunny from Looney Tunes, Crash Bandicoot, etc.). And let's not forget that I'm in a relationship with HammySigvard (my boyfriend who approved of me coming out).

The important question being... am I gay, or not? I hope someone can fill me in and create a conclusion based off what I described above.
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DeltaP
3 weeks ago
You still can be bisexual all you want
COL95JAC
3 weeks ago
Well, from the information that you've given me, I would determine that you're probably a gay man rather than bisexual. According to your own words, female fan art doesn't seem to sexually arouse you yet male fan art does. And even when you do have feelings towards females, you don't feel it in an NSFW way.
And even if you on rare occasion might feel some degree of sexual attraction towards females, that doesn't necessarily make you bi. There are many gay men IRL who have admitted to have had sex with women before on rare occasions.
While it's ultimately up to you as far as what you want to call yourself, I would personally label you as a gay man with a small degree of openness towards females or at best, a bisexual man with a very strong preference towards males. I'll let you decide which of those two labels you prefer.
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