That was a difficult question to answer, first because I had to explain what were the three things. To me. I get some people may have differents interpretations of it. I hope I have been relatively clear about it.
Otherwise, another not so good night for me. It took me hours to actually fall asleep, as I stressed again over this whole trip to Canada, mostly guilt about me being a cub there. Likely, this was created by a really stressfull even that took place before I hit bed. Some may remember that the president of my first rpg club insulted me in public, making me rise my voice, and later started to try to kick me out of the club and filled a complaint against me with the police. Pushed by the rest of the club, we finally met yesterday to discuss the matter.
I had many short nights wondering how that would go. I aimed to stay calm and diplomatic, but it was really stressfull and I nearly wet myself during the discussion. I argued that the problem wasn't being between us, but between the president and the rest of the club as he had turned more and more into a tyran. He explained that after his messy divorce, he decided to stop letting people walk over him and take charge... he didn't realized that all his attempts to do that turned him more and more into a control freak the others members feared while he thought he was doing all he could to make a politic of being open-minded and diplomatic... Explanations showed him that he didn't realized he had insulted me and that another time I raised my voice, he was bullying me. Also, two people, one on each side of the conflict, had made suggestions that had put oil in the fire. So he said he left with a new understanding of the situation and that if we had talk just after the events, everything would have been cleared out and such. He also listened to the most hateful member of the club, which made the situation worst with every action he took.
He said things are good between us and that he will try to improve himself. We will see. I was still pretty stressed about this difficult time.
