this one will lose me followers but i must make my stance clear. i am pro FICTION. I am not pro map or pro zoo. copy and pasted from my twitter: my content is not for zoos and maps, it is for people who understand fiction does not equal reality and keeps their attraction fictional. i do not mind people who are non contact as much. my issue is with people who do not understand the harm their contact causes children and animals are living things that will be traumatized by your "love". even if it does not become sexual, romance with a child or an animal has an unfair power balance and, in the case of children, can set them up to then be groomed by pro-contact maps.
if you are having sexual thoughts about real children or animals, i implore you to consider medication to reduce libido and to reach out for support. you can't control your attractions, but you CAN control the harm you let it produce:
if you have pedophilic or zoosexual thoughts i highly implore you to find support that is not condoning those thoughts. remember that acting upon them, even romantically, will cause harm. so many people in proship spaces are now turning towards being zoophiles and its disheartening. there's a big difference between liking a drawing of a feral and liking pictures of real animal sex. i know people can't control their attractions but you can control the damage you cause. and if you don't care about the damage, remember that the Lord sees all and He wants you to be your best self, and that means not harming other beings. He hates the sin, not the sinner.
I am happy to see someone say this. Thanks to childhood traumas i make the wrong kind of attractions with pets especialy dogs because how affectionate and loyal and cuddly they can be and are close to the pwesonality and company i desire. And i always got the wrong advice because there are way too many enablers especialy if one is like me who is always nice and wants to mak everyon happy (which is exactly the problem i am too eager to please others) in this community and only two i opened up to actualy told me i should seek help if the fantasies and urges i have become hard to control. Which is kinda sad because i do want my own dog when i have my own place but i don't know if i can trust myself. Especialy with a male doggo and last time i tried to talk to my therapist about it i litterly almost vomited from anxiety and stress.. but i finally found someone that perfectly matches me and my needs hopefuly it will turn out great and the side i mentioned will be forgotten both subconsiously and consiously. I am sorry for the wall of text in your comments it kinda turned into me venting.. its also really hard for me to know who i can talk to about this subject without being called evil for having something i can't control and not even want. Unless i am horny
I am happy to see someone say this. Thanks to childhood traumas i make the wrong kind of attractions
i don't trust that pedo.help site much. it says some things that are correct or reasonable but a fair bit of misinformation/stereotypes are present on there.
i don't trust that pedo.help site much. it says some things that are correct or reasonable but a fai
