This is a pretty special commission I just had woulphie do for me on a recent discovery, finding a better more exact fit on what I am. Their upload is HERE if can comment and fave there also!
Back in 1995 before found the fandom I was straight, or thought I was and just not really having much luck finding the right girl to love and be attracted to. Once found the furry fandom I then learn about gays and bisexuals and finding out a. they arent bad people at all and b. I wasnt straight,, found a guy i liked... so that makes me bi right? have been in a handful of relationships since and while I felt i loved them, sex just wasnt ever really something I was in any care to do. Guess I`m just broken.
Fast forward to a few weeks ago when pride month was going on I noticed a handful of folks drawing themselves in colored shirts with different sripes then the rainbrow pride shirt i recall from the early 2000`s... Learned about the Asexuality one and read aboiut it.... and that fit me like a glove. Much better than bisexual did. Moved me to tears with joy learning i`m NOT broken, and that asexuals can and have been able to find compatible partners who understand sex isnt really your thing or main way care to show/prove you love them.
While this doesnt fix my many other quirks and issues to sort out, this is a HUGE step to make me better explain to others why have had a tough time finding mr or mrs right. I wont keep beating up on myself thinking i am broken on being able to love someone and them understand.
So for those who worked hard to make such a flag/set of colors exist to represent us asexuals or `Aces` out there, THANK YOU. I hope to meet more like me to be able to connect with and learn from. Its a huge step in the right direction to me hopefully finding the right companion.
I was very tired when typing this up and using an old slow Android tablet. Not as smooth to use as a desktop browser on a PC or laptop. Should be corrected now.
I was very tired when typing this up and using an old slow Android tablet. Not as smooth to use as a
woulphie do for me on a recent discovery, finding a better more exact fit on what I am. Their upload is HERE if can comment and fave there also!
