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PeachClover

A Few Words on and Questions to Transgendered Persons

As a spirit grows and develops, it is natural to develop preferences that follow into different life times for example species, personality traits, and gender, so the existence of TG persons is no surprise to me, however, there are somethings that I would like to say to the TG community.

First, I understand; spiritually I am a hermaphrodite kaline (rabbit species) even though in this life I was born a male human.  I understand the social bullshit about gender rolls and resent them greatly, like many of you, I have been forced to keep the majority of my preferences a secret with the obligatory retarded-parents trying to tell me who I have to be for their sake, and yes, I am very upset that most people do not see me as pretty when I try to be pretty because society says men are supposed to be ugly and heartless.

That being said, there are many things that I don't understand about TG male to females for which, I want answers.  One, why is it so important that you have a vagina?  Yes, I know not having what you want is annoying, but the way I understand it is, even postop TGs still only get sexed by people who are bi or gay and are the type to accept another open mindedly anyway.  Two, why do some of you have disphoria over having a penis?  Is it really that disgusting to you that you don't want to see it?  So are you a lesbian born in a man's body?  I hear that's the fastest way to get slapped by a woman.  You know, I certainly wouldn't want to be born as a cockroach, but if I was it would take me a while to realize that I'm not supposed to be a cockroach, and during that time of not knowing, I would have accepted what I am and my disgust would only be a dislike for the knowledge of the fact that it could be better, AND this is exactly the case for me, as I have already stated that I am supposed to be a herm kaline.

Three... <angry mode> Why are you so god damn fat?  I have yet to see a thin MtoF TG.  I have heard that the hormone drugs cause weight gain, but that is a crock of shit: there is a gay male I know who took one pill form hormone drug illegally because he wanted a more feminine look and sure enough he looked beautiful with soft skin and a skinny body.  At that time he had been taking it for over a year, so please explain to me why you allow yourselves to resemble beached whales?  What does it matter if you get people to stop being ugly toward you for being feminine in a male body if you turn around and have them be ugly to you for being a walrus?  I don't like fat on anyone, and if you are one of those fat-pride people please don't bother saying anything ugly to me unless you also send a video of yourself doing something like this.

Four, why is it when a TG starts hormone therapy they become another person?  A few years back I spent a lot of time talking and RPing with one TG because we shared a lot of interests, after she started hormone therapy, she became a complete bitch, even being blatantly hypocritical in judging me for my interests in the very thing we RPed...  I really don't understand, does acting like a closed minded neanderthal female make you feel more like a real woman because that's how all the other girls in society act?  I promise you this, being ugly and judgmental toward others will not stop others from judging YOU; we are not like everybody else, and we never will be, therefore we will live our entire lives being judged preop, postop, or no-op, so please stop trying to find the magic solution through emulation, and just come to terms with this truth.

I guess that's about it really.  As you can see, I don't have a very high opinion of most MtoF TGs, but that's because of PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, however, my best friend is TG.  Honestly, I pity TGs, it bothers me to see you so discontent, but often I think that those who are most discontent are only so discontent because they are trying to be accepted for who they are in mainstream society, but the truth is, if mainstream society was accepting of the way people want to be, we'd have world peace.

That being said, I await your answers.
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Added: 7 years, 3 months ago
 
Alfador
7 years, 3 months ago
> I have yet to see a thin MtoF TG.

Years ago, I was friends with a fox lady, skinnier than I am (about on par with how skinny I was at the time), and after a while she revealed to me she was M2F. Since I didn't foresee looking at her naked in the near future anyway, I took the position that it didn't really change anything--she was still my friend, everything was as it was. The only reason I use the past tense is because we've been out of contact for a few years, not any sort of strife.

The personality changes are probably caused by the hormones. The kind of dosage needed to cause female development in an adult male body is large enough to cause significant personality changes. It's like artificial PMS on steroids.
PeachClover
7 years, 3 months ago
Ah... Well, I still don't accept hypocrisy as a valid reason.  I deal with my own set of chemical troubles, but I don't let it ruin a friendship.
Alfador
7 years, 3 months ago
Agreed with you there; I don't think hormone-affected personality changes should be allowed to break up a real friendship, no matter how powerful.
Alynna
7 years, 3 months ago
was this post inspired by me?
PeachClover
7 years, 3 months ago
Nope.
KimiKins
7 years, 3 months ago
I would assume hormones play a large role in this whole thing. Diet etc is important, however many tg people seek to eliminate testosterone long before starting estrogen. This deficiancy would cause some level of weight gain as hormones play a large role in metabolism. Also changing moods/interests seem to occur when hormones are changed.

Sent via phone.
ZennithCaitiff
7 years, 3 months ago
peach,.  love, i whole heartedly agree.... as a kaline myself, i do greatly miss the times we had back home ;3 but soon enough im sure we will be able to do so again yes? as for the judgemental tendencies of people, tis the reason i have general society

love ya peach, and i plan on getting that pic of you posted soon so i can start coloring it. :p

as i said, i want to get that other picture done too
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