So, the next time you peek at TNSc, things may seem just a tad bit different.
First off, we have moved completely off of the Pornhome.com server for the adult site and onto Pridesites.com. This is the biggest change so far. Though I may be considering another facelift in the near future.
The reason for this move is to help minimize server forced ads on our users. Instead of 3 image ads along the top and 5 ads on the bottom of each page - Pridesites as a smaller text ad bar with 3 text ads along the top and a smaller single banner ad at the bottom.
Pridesits and Pornhome do NOT meter bandwith usage. Pridesites does not offer any ad-free upgrades, but Pornhome does.
We are hoping that the minimization of ads on TNSC - to the best of our abilities - will make the site more welcoming for new users.
We are still keeping the pages and the accounts on both pornhome.com and 3host.com - in case we experience stability issues with any of the servers. We strive for 100% stability, and are happy to maintain 99.603% uptime. (Yes, we actually keep an active watch on the site and its services)
Amid that, we also noticed a brand new user who signed up to the forums within 24 hours after we made the change.
Mixy and myself are fairly close, even with the pet.
However, I would feel a whole lot better if I felt more like I was desireable. Would help, and has helped, with my jealousy issues.
But I also recently read something that did open my eyes.
Was a book on astrology and mateships.
And apparently the coupling I'm in is destined to be more of a fight getting everything straight - but a part of that fight would be me having to learn to be less possessive.
Though at the same time, Mixy is a bit possessive over me as well. While he may not get jealous over any play time with others, he simply refuses to really let me go.
So, I have been doing a lot of work on my own jealousy and letting him have a bit of his own fun as well. Would just be nice to know that at least one person finds me desirable, and I would feel a lot better knowing for sure that my mate still find me somewhat desirable.