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AeylinFaith

I might just finally leave Inkbunny | Not to start up any drama

The tolerant left, maybe the tolerant should leave.
I might sell my characters, but I won't delete my account.


About me and Inkbunny
I thought Inkbunny was one of those places where you had people who are welcoming, accepting and able to talk to one another regardless of their background.

Over the years, I've seen several accounts on here leave, show their true colours.

I've always been someone who feels deeply misunderstood but is able to place themselves in others' shoes. People often come to me for advice and confide that they feel understood or that I can explain things to them from a helpful perspective. I've always strived to understand "humans" and it often feels like I'm an A.I. that is just constantly met with conflicting data that needs to be reëvaluated.

I came to Inkbunny and was welcomed by artists and random people, everyone was eager to help, get to know each other, talk and escape from the real world. The staff seemed active, and there wasn't really any drama. Then came things like A.I. art, which stirred up some bee nests, and other topics. Now I get it, we are all human, and it's important to express our feelings and concerns and have a place to vent. But when this venting becomes hostile, anger, blame shifting or intolerance, it goes to far.

Now, Inkbunny is and always was intended as a place for furry art, and I liked that the site had, while not 100% clear, solid rules and tools to help you navigate things that you wanted to see or avoid.

Why I'm leaving
Many of my past friends have left or gone radio silent for one reason or another, so there is not much sence of community here anymore.

People have become much less tolerant of differences in "tastes, opinions and preferences". Despite people having the option to not engage, ignore, or block.

The furry community at large has a high corolation with people identifying as or supporting left-leaning and/or LGBTQ things, wich is fine but I am a centrist leaning right and I there are some things that give the furry community and LGBTQ a bad name/reputation that I don't want or feel assosiated with.

A few recent things I've seen unfold in journals on inkbunny with a recent person projecting their anger, name-calling and blocking so there is no way to resolve the conflict if there even was one, I was merely trying to make them look at their behaviour or perspective in a mirror but instea,d they keep projecting and then deny me the ability to explain myself.

Another reason is my mental health, I've not gone into super detail on this, but I haven't kept it a secret either. It's best for me to just remove myself from getting involved in these things, as it eats away at my soul, and I can't carry the weight of every single individual in this world.

What does this mean
I most likely will stop being active here in 2026.
It means I will finish writing the commissions I've taken on from individuals and discuss how I will deliver their work, since I won't delete my account I most likely will just post it here as usual.

If people are interested in my characters and want to adopt them along with their art and offer a reasonable price, I will most likely sell them, which helps me cover bills and potentially refund those who want that.

It means I won't be continuing to work on my writing projects so I'll consider them public domain for anyone that wishes to build on them.
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Added: 4 days, 21 hrs ago
 
jdg07
4 days, 21 hrs ago
im sorry i kinda just up and dissapeared life got really hellish for me and is still hellish i hope oyu have been well and just wanted to apologize for why i dissapeared :(
AeylinFaith
4 days, 19 hrs ago
Don't take anything personally, life happens and I'm not great at staying in touch either but I try.
Scorpione87
4 days, 14 hrs ago
Accidenti è un problema veramente grave.
Dispiace molto.
AeylinFaith
4 days, 11 hrs ago
Non preoccuparti, non prenderla sul personale, non c'è nulla contro di te.
SpoonFox
4 days, 12 hrs ago
You observe the loud extremes that make up a small fraction. Also, based on what I've seen? You're not a centrist in the way of the 'American' sense, their mentality is "A little racism and sexism is fine as a treat". But more of a European Centrist (Basically a 'democrat' on the US side when it comes to conservative beliefs. There's a lot of conservative democrats, people don't realize it.) Anyways... You're not like the actual loons I've seen who call themselves centrists who believe trans deserve to be imprisoned or killed, those very sentiments expressed on inkbunny... But that's me also observing loud extremes... Even if it seems to feel like a majority, most of the 'rightwing furries' on inkbunny are trolls or assholes to begin with; with a few manipulators who just want to pick fights. The quiet ones tend to be fine; they don't resort to name calling, and just stick to their corner, like we all do.

Anyways... If you think your mental health is taking a toll, I honestly believe you should take a break and find something to hold onto and guide you (NOT POLITICAL! That always leads to extremism or unwarranted stress, holy fuck, and I don't mean right or left, I mean -in general-, holy fuck @_@) But something like a hobby or close friend.

I'm barely on this site as is for my own mental health. I get easily triggered by misinformation and lies, and my teacher brain wants to correct people, but I need to learn to stop arguing with people who debate in bad faith. I was also on the lines saying the recent events "We do not condone violence. We do not celebrate violence. We do not have to mourn, but we do not celebrate someone's death, ever." Same as when a rightwing furry who sewed hatred amongst various people passed away, I said the exact same thing. Humans are weirdly violent... We really are orcs at the end of the day if we give into that natural desire... *sigh* ANYWAYS...

Do what you feel is best for you. Be wary of tripping stones that may lead into despair, and don't fall for traps that might demand you radicalize or hate others... Pity them, do not hate.

EDIT: ... Okay, I really do have a bad habit of over explaining shit. Sorry. The last line is the only real important one.
AeylinFaith
4 days, 11 hrs ago
Sounds about right yeah, American politics is rediculous as is with them just choosing between 2 parties instead of multiple. And yeah politics can get messy, but so can any topic. People nowadays with the whole internet seem to think that hostility is a normal way of communicating and that everyone is out to get them.

I'm trying yeah, and I am definatly taking a break, me leaving isn't a 100% but it is likely.

" I'm barely on this site as is for my own mental health. I get easily triggered by misinformation and lies, and my teacher brain wants to correct people, but I need to learn to stop arguing with people who debate in bad faith. I was also on the lines saying the recent events "We do not condone violence. We do not celebrate violence. We do not have to mourn, but we do not celebrate someone's death, ever."

This, it's not that hard to be a human if I can do it right? xD. But seriously I am equally frustrated but I tend to forget that you have the "average" and the extremes so with some its like talking to a brick wall, and sometimes the wall tosses a brick at you.

It is unfortunate that with the amount of people we have, human history just seems to not just repeat but multiply the amount of mistakes, wich statistically makes sence if let's say 10% of a population is extreme then if you have just a milion people spread across the world or a billion that amount of extremist grows rapidly.

Same, same. Welcome to the club. I liked coming to your TED talk.
SpoonFox
4 days, 11 hrs ago
Oh yeah, don't get me started on the 2 party thing. "Oh, if you don't 100% agree with me, you're a liberal/fascist/commie/nazi!" mentalities are all over the place. Polarized tribalism. If you understand actual ideologies and government, it's never 'just' left or 'just' right, or it falls apart, it's pieces and policies from all over the place. Like I tell people, I'm not left or right, I'm diagonal. I pick policies that work, and reject ones that don't. Easy, how government should work.

And lordie, so many flying bricks lately. A friend told me to avoid the loonies and try to decompress, so I'm trying that. Is it cowardly? Doesn't matter, it's healthy. :3
AeylinFaith
4 days, 11 hrs ago
Exactly, and when you ask them to define the terms in their own words or refer to the dictionary they still cling to them as if they are fact and somehow make sence.

I heard a new one yesterday: There is hate like christian love. I'm still trying to wrap my head around that one xD. It's an oxymoron and there are so many ways to express love.. or hate.. and you can't express the other emotion with the other.

Yeah and they forget there is autoritarianism and anarchy, and while extreme autoritarianism has shown itself in the past.. I fear what extreme anarchy would bring.

The loonies xD, I have a word in my own language that makes sense there but doesn't really in english.
SpoonFox
4 days, 11 hrs ago
I can explain that one. "There's no hate like christian love" is in reference to the American 'Christians' who scream vitriol and tell people they'll go to Hell for being queer/not christian, but then immediately say they "love everyone equally" and "Jesus loves you". They also don't follow their very religion... When you explain what Jesus teaches, they call it socialism. *rolls eyes* American Christians would've had Jesus arrested or deported, that's the irony in it. Those particular christians aren't the majority, but they're a loud extreme that people think represents America from looking inside (A lot of the Europeans and Asians I speak with see it that way...)

Anarchy only works if everyone cooperates, not everyone will cooperate, and someone will rise up. Humans desire leaders because instinctively it means their brains don't need to dedicate as much to surviving, they just follow their leader. Humans are also social animals, that build weird social bonds with each other... But they are also tribalistic and have the desire to be the 'hero' in their stories, even if it means being a villain in someone else's. It's all... Wild to study.

Speaking of dictionary... I legit had a transphobic bigot call the Dictionary 'Liberal Propaganda' when I gave him the exact definition of a word he said 'doesn't exist in reality'.
JuniperWind
21 hrs, 58 mins ago
This is accurate, in my opinion. The loudest and more extreme ones are the ones that are getting all of the attention and painting the others in a bad light. I don't know where I am on the political spectrum, but this is something I've noticed all over.
AeylinFaith
20 hrs, 50 mins ago
Yeah, and its frustrating because all it does is make them yell louder and louder, like the trafic in India or people at birthday parties trying to honk/talk over each other..

I'm still not sure if I'll leave yet but yeah internet is just sometimes too much.
SpoonFox
20 hrs, 24 mins ago
The worst part is that, the actual voices of reason are drowned out or associated with the loud extremists. You bring logic to the table, and suddenly you're one of the extremists... You try having a civil conversation, and if it doesn't go the right way, you're the scum of the earth. All because they have only dealt with other extremists, because they cannot see that there are those of us who aren't stupid enough to fall within the pitfalls that they have. There's a SHITLOAD of projection in the current social climate, and it wounds me. Everyone assumes everyone else is exactly like them, and it makes me sad, because that in itself... Is erasure of uniqueness, of individuality, of differences that make our world beautiful.
AeylinFaith
3 days, 15 hrs ago
Ah, I see, yeah, it's more of a love-hate relationship than that one. Or an overly concerned parent. Unfortunaltly speaking to some people the message falls on deaf ears, wich is ironic in this case as the bible teaches that jesus said: "Please forgive them father for they do not know what they are doing" refering that they can't hear his message or see his light. Something along those lines.

There will unfortunatly always be radicals in any system or group. And anarchys nature means that no one will coöperate, wich is a thing that extreme versions of socialism and communism attemted wich is the opposite of anarchy (Authoritarian). Even nazi germany was somewhat like that, but only for the "Übermensch".

It baffles me how some people pretend, especially certain christians that we humans are above animals, yet we are all created in gods image including animals.. and they can't explain how god would want or allow suffering to exist, especially towards animals or humans for that matter.

Ah typical anchor bias, you will find the same with a radical on the opposite side claiming it's right wing propaganda or transphobic nonsence. What a world we live in eh?
AeylinFaith
3 days, 15 hrs ago
SpoonFox
SpoonFox
forgot to click reply ;/
SpoonFox
3 days, 10 hrs ago
Some things are literally transphobic, but some people will scream that you got their pronouns wrong the first time and call you a transphobe; those are the vocal minority that people associate with the majority. There is literal rightwing propaganda, as well as leftwing, but the left is more rare in the US these days because of the Media being controlled by a LOT of conservative minds. ABC fired Kimmel for not bending the knee to Trump recently. CBS fired Colbert for not bending the knee. Both of them did this because the current FCC chairman wanted them fired, and they need the FCC's approval for Business Mergers...

I'm so happy you said "Extreme versions of socialism and communism" because there ARE non-extreme versions. Governments don't work in extreme conditions, they become defunct and destroy their constituents. Policies from almost every type of ideology have good ideas, such as universal healthcare or disability resulting in happier and harder working employees and families, but purely sticking to one ideology leads down tyranny and ends up falling apart. It also requires a leader to lead the people, not a ruler to rule over them.

I've studied Jesus's teachings, and... A lot of people are far from Christian... they cherry pick which parts of the bible are important to them, then ignore the rest. *sigh* I was raised in a Christian household, and Jesus was basically a blueprint to my 'socialist paradise' mentality (That's what the idiots call it, I just call it 'taking care of each other')
ChocolatePotatoes
2 hrs, 22 mins ago
Please, take it easy and go with the flow for a while. Sounds simple, I know. Focus solely on you, and if someone asks why you are ignoring them, explain that you are working on private goals. If they leave, then you will know where you truly stand with them. A true friend will ask to help you, but will respect your wishes and offer their help when it is needed.

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