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NeiNing

Autism! :D

So, on Thursday last week I met my psychologist and special doctor for the last time. They both have been treating me since late spring / early summer 2024. Meeting with psychologist 1-2 a month, at times special doctor was in those meetings. During this year, in the last few months, I've gone through autism / ADHD tests with my psychologist in the last couple of months, hearing the results on Thursday.

I have autism + depression and severe anxiety (which will last the rest of my life)! I KNEW I wasn't "normal", ahah! :D I've never felt "normal", never understood "normal" and never saw eye-to-eye with "normal".

But getting the actual and official diagnose was like winning the lottery to me! I was SO happy and relieved! It felt like... pieces of a puzzle fell in place, you know? Since then I've just sit alone at home and let this actually and truly sink in.

I'm not "normal" but I'm heck happy and proud to be different! :D Sure, everyday life is a huge struggle but at the same time I've been like this over the last 20+ years easily so I'm, more or less, used to it. Only difference is that after Verti died in 2023, these symptoms "exploded" in my hands, turning much more worse / stronger.

About the meeting still! This special doctor looked at me and said at the end of the meeting:

"Yeah, you are in no shape to work. Nor can you be rehabilitated. I will write you a statement about this and send it forward."

I'm waiting her statement. After all it's been only few days since I got diagnosed, she doesn't work during weekends and she sure as heck have other patients, not just me.

But YAY for autism! :D I celebrated it a bit with cake and strawberry soda, ahaha! <3 Everything, kind of, feels more peaceful now too. More peace with myself as well.

Thank you all SO MUCH for your support and patience with me! <3 It honestly and truly means A LOT to me! You guys are so lovely and awesome :3
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DreamTiger
2 weeks, 6 days ago
Welcome to da club! I was diagnosed with autism, Asperger's Syndrome so I'm on the spectrum. Welcome to the Oddball Club! :D
NeiNing
2 weeks, 6 days ago
Thank you! :D It's nice to be part of this club!
My psychologist mentioned something about Asperger's Syndrome but apparently medical field is starting to leave that out. Instead of Asperger's Syndrome, it will be called simply autism as well. Of course this is in Finland so I don't know will this include every country in the world :'D
AnthonitecusW0LF
2 weeks, 6 days ago
Welcome to the club buddy, i was diagnosed with autism as a 4 year old and i was already speaking english by learning ALL by myself
NeiNing
2 weeks, 6 days ago
Thank you! Oh wow, in so young age! :O I'm 39 soon and I got diagnosed only now, ahah! But hey, better late than never, I guess. But damn, so skilled for a 4 year old! I'm amazed... :D

I'm sure I've shown autistic signs (with my siblings) even in young age but neither of my parents really cared about us, paid us any attention etc so... yeah :'D All the signs missed for decades.
AnthonitecusW0LF
2 weeks, 6 days ago
Yeah, i'm Very skilled in english but i mostly like history and geography as well during School years. Also after writting my books séries, now i'm currently working on my webseries on my YouTube channel
NeiNing
2 weeks, 5 days ago
That's great! :D I'm not as skilled as I probably should / could be but as long as I get understood and speak it "about right", that's all what matters to me, ahah! After all, back in the early 2000 I used dictionary (physical book since internet wasn't a thing back then yet so much) to learn English. I wasn't interest about it in school (school years were absolutely horrible to me). Only thing what I liked in school was art classes but the teacher wasn't the best one. For 2h she left us in the class, saying: "Do whatever you want as long as you don't leave the class room." Didn't learn anything in those classes :'D So I'm pretty much shelf-taught artist too xD

Oh, that's nice! How do you find energy / motivation for that? I mean I really struggle to write and draw in these days. Of course my cat's death in 2023 was the main reason for, literally, everything falling out of my life but still. Like... I have comic ideas, some I've sketch a bit. I have art ideas, I've unfinished stories and new fic ideas and yet I have zero motivation or energy to do them. My mind keeps telling me to work on them but I just can't.
AnthonitecusW0LF
2 weeks, 5 days ago
Oh wow
Galizia
2 weeks, 2 days ago
Finally, some peace and quiet for you. :D I hope everything gets better for you from now on. You really deserve to be happy. We love you!!!
NeiNing
2 weeks, 2 days ago
Finally! For the peace of mind, at least :D Plus no more meeting which only made my anxiety WORSE, ahah! Thank you, that means a lot to me! <3 I hope the same thing since it would be nice and most needed / welcome change :3 Awh, thank you! You are so kind! ^^
riverhayashi
1 week, 2 days ago
I hope you're well on your way to living better and happier and healthier!
I am still trying to find a way to get a diagnosis myself ^^
NeiNing
1 week, 2 days ago
Thank you! So far all's good! Some tiny hiccups on the way but not anything what I can't handle :D
I hope you can find a way to get diagnosed. I started my journey by going to see regular doctor at the hospital, he then guided me forward to psychologist / therapist. She then guided me forward to 2 other different therapists / psychologists and then one of them send me forward to mental health clinic where I met my last psychologist and special doctor. I was their client about 2 year, maybe not even that long. Maybe 1,5 years or something. And then, finally, I got diagnosed :'D Things started to "settle" after I stopped being pushed forward to somebody else constantly, finally getting to work in steady and calm space with only one person (psychologist). I think I met that special doctor like... 4 times in that time when I was their patient in that mental clinic :'D
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