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AdultFlamingAzalea

Should I Stay or Leave?

I am majorly conflicted about leaving this site tbh. Quite a few things to consider.

On the side of leaving…

Besides the recent issue of finding out GreenReaper is a major transphobe, there’s been other reasons I’ve wanted to leave for a while now. Not least of which is the site’s reputation as a whole, and the content that is approved to be on the site. I have a long time friend who knows I have an account on this site, and they strongly believe that the only people who actively use this site are, to put it gently, either the perpetrators or victims of grooming. Ignoring the whole “it’s just fantasy” debate, I don’t want to be grouped in with that category of people. Hence, why I want to end my association with the site.

On the side of staying…

I’ve seen other creators making statements that they are going to stay on the site in spite of GreenReaper’s anti-trans statements, saying that a mass exodus of LGBTQ individuals would be playing right into his transphobic hands, getting rid of all those pesky pronoun users. So, there’s part of me as well that wants to stay just to spite him, as a bit of a “fuck you, trans people aren’t going anywhere!” So many places, both online and in person, are trying to make it less safe to exist as a trans person. And I’m all for a good fight to prove I as a transgender person deserve to exist in public just the same as any cisgender person.

So, I don’t know what to do right now. I’ll wait a bit to see if InkBunny makes any official statements. But still, follow me elsewhere just in case I do decide to delete my IB accounts.

If anyone has anything to add to convince me either to stay or to go, let me know.

Thank you and have a good day.
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Added: 1 month, 1 week ago
 
Reizinho
1 month, 1 week ago
" So, I don’t know what to do right now. I’ll wait a bit to see if InkBunny makes any official statements. But still, follow me elsewhere just in case I do decide to delete my IB accounts.


There will be none. Greenreaper is not interested in making anti-trans policy in this site, despite his personal position on pronouns. Things will remain the same. If that is the case, that's another reason to think that leaving would be a disservice to the trans community. Because you lose nothing by staying and wins nothing by leaving.
BogdanUrs
1 month, 1 week ago
well said Reizinho, you said it better than i did :)

btw i just wanna add something that i forgot to say before

there *are* transphobes on this website for sure

but remember that the transphobes *want* you to leave the site

so if *you* leave, then *they* win

which is all the more reason to stay lol
AdultFlamingAzalea
1 month, 1 week ago
That is a fair point. I guess I might stay.
Reizinho
1 month, 1 week ago
Plus, hon, you, as a trans person, is supposed to be occupy any space you wish.
AdultFlamingAzalea
1 month, 1 week ago
Thank you ^^
BogdanUrs
1 month, 1 week ago
please stay, the community is better with you in it :)
AdultFlamingAzalea
1 month, 1 week ago
Aww, thank you.
BogdanUrs
1 month, 1 week ago
de nada :)
DefenderBunny
2 weeks, 3 days ago
hey this site is better with you in it^^ I would me more happy if you stayed
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