so, I have some good advice for ya'll.
When it comes to red flags, I have one that i've come to a realization about today.
Be mindful of people who don't believe others can change. Usually those folk are relatively toxic or actively hiding something, more commonly the former in my experience.
Why do I say this? Because people ARE able to change, both for better and worse. Hell, if people couldn't change, then how could I go from being a horrible artist with organics, to getting a decent at it. that constitutes as change, does it not? I've become a better writer over time, that's technically changing in some way. If people are incapable of change, that implies that people are naturally born always able to do what they do, and can't learn to do anything different. it implies that people are born evil or good from the very start, which simply is not true either.
People are not born evil or good at the beginning, it takes events in their lives to cause them to be a good or bad person. I'd love to hear your thoughts though. what are some good red flags that you all know? Maybe we can compile a list to help others.
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