I know my mates going to be mad at me but oh well...
We're trying to have pups but sadly my mate is unable to have them naturally due to some medical issues...I'll leave that at that... but she can bare them so we opted to do embryo adoption (if you want to know about it ask or oogle) and well first try was well a miscarriage sadly and now of all else she got off her insurance to be on mine since 4 months ago they said they accepted mine however they told her when hers expired that they haven't accepted mine for a year now (jerks wouldn't even look at the card prior to hers expiring which could've told us they didn't accept then would've kept hers just for this) so now of course all bills are 100% out-of-pocket with no insurance help. I'm taking on as much overtime as I can get and side electrical jobs as well to try to help but not many looking for electrical here apparently and I don't know how to do sublimation nor can I draw to save my life. But ATM I'm at my wits end of ideas to make some more moola to have pups. I have to pay $800 dollars tomorrow just for them to check to make sure all is out so my mate doesn't have sepsis or get it if anything is left if not going to be a heck of a lot more to do a DNC . I wish I could do something to help make more money so we can have pups. My in-laws have helped tremendously and my folks would help more but they've been in rough times (accident, car broke down, limited income due to no work no pay and no PTO, my vehicles having issues and I have fixed what I can but some I can't fix myself due to lack of know-how and funds {i.e. drive with a jacket and gloves or pay to fix actuator or whatever is the problem, jerry rig/JB weld to fix things temporarily till can fix properly, etc.}. I just don't know what to do to help more to have pups and be able to enjoy and be a father that can play with my pups and not be always know as a Jurassic or old father that can't play and be with my pups like a father can/should be like and see them grow up and have grand pups and that. Any ideas or ways that I can help in this situation would be greatly appreciated especially since 99% of insurances would cover pregnancy's and abortion but not to get pregnant which IDK why that is but go figure and not to be a negative Nancy kind of one but I just don't understand that but what do I know. TIA
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