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Sundayeyes

Making some changes...

I have a confession to make. Over the last few months I’ve come to the realization that social media stresses me the fuck out. And that stress, that constant pull to be present, to engage because you feel like you’ll be forgotten if you’re not constantly posting all the time... yeah... that’s not for me.

Twitter can be fun, and I’ve met so many people there that are wonderful and kind and funny and lovely, and I’m so grateful for that! 💖 But the frantic pace of Twitter has sucked me in and dragged me down and it's been distracting me from what I'm actually here for.

I'm here to read and to write fic and to look at beautiful art. I have so much love for all the artists and writers in the TMNT fandom, I have so many ideas in my head for content I want to create, but I've allowed social media to command too much of my focus. It's stressing me out and my barely controlled anxiety just can't do it any more.

I'm not leaving the fandom, I won't stop writing, but I need to make some changes for me to be happier.

So, I'm pulling back from Twitter. I'll still be there, but not as much as before and I'm reworking some of my own boundaries when it comes to the platform. One of those things is going to involve unfollowing accounts. For my own sanity it's something I need to do. But please know, if I have unfollowed you it's not personal at all, I love everyone in the fandom equally, I just need to take charge of my own experience and my expectations for that experience.

I'm staying here on IB and all my fic will still be on AO3, my dm's will stay open and I will happily respond to messages! I'm just an introvert that needs to make my little corner a little more quiet so I can stay happy and enthusiastic about these turtle boys we all love so much! 💖🐢

And for anyone who needs to hear this today, don't be afraid to make necessary changes to your own social media experience. Your mental wellness is the most important part of yourself and it needs to be carefully cared for. The only person you owe something to, is yourself, and your number one priority should always be to take care of you! 💖✨
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Added: 3 years, 8 months ago
 
TurtleMousie
3 years, 8 months ago
Always do what you need to for yourself and your own health and happiness!

Twitter is an exceptionally intense, fast pace platform. It's difficult not to feel like you 'have to' keep up with it and that is immensely draining. Honestly, it's something I'm having to learn to come to grips with and get a proper hold on, myself. My therapist and I have talked about it at length.

I'm glad to hear you're taking charge and control again! It's so important and I'm sending you all the good vibes and well wishes to see you get back to creating with love and enthusiasm. We all had friends and shared a love of TMNT long before Twitter and even things like Tumblr existed. I'll be watching your AO3 and IB with excitement! =D ♥
Sundayeyes
3 years, 8 months ago
Thank you, Mousie! 💜 I'm so glad you're talking about it with your therapist. Keep focusing on what brings you joy! We all deserve to be happy and stress-free. 💖🐢
riverhayashi
3 years, 8 months ago
Self care is very important! Have fun doing what you love :D
Sundayeyes
3 years, 8 months ago
Thanks! I'm already feeling better! ❤️
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