Guys, I know I love to help and all... but, from some time ago, I've been feeling like my time does no longer belong to me... whenever I try to do something, to enjoy something or simply have some "me time"... there's ALWAYS someone who wants to talk, RP, propose to me something or just... well, wanting me to listen and solve their problems... I can no longer deal with that... YES, currently I've had an emotional crisis and I am depressed... I need time for myself... I cannot make everyone happy and hinder my own mental sanity in the process!!! So please, give me some space. For that I will post here my usual schedule so you can know when is a good time to talk to me. Here we go, I'll make it simple. Have in mind all these are in Central time, ok? Since I live in Mérida, Yucatán; México in America (The contintent people, I know some will argue about it).
Basically from the moment I wake up about 6:30 am I wait like 10 minutes to have my breakfast. (Please DO NOT wake me up... or I'll be shitty and grumpy)
After that, I start working from 7:30/8:00 am to 1:00/2:00 pm (This time I could use more or less depending on the kind of work I'm doing, thing is, people's been talking to me during these times and I just split between working and replying, so I lose time)
I have my lunch at 2:00 pm to 3:00 pm (Please DO NOT interrupt me during this time)
starting from 3:00 pm to 5:30 pm I have some spare time for myself... a couple of hours to play videogames, to read a book, to watch a movie
Between 5:00 and 6:00 pm I take 20 minutes to shower (Sometimes I shower before I start enjoying my solo time)
Starting from 6:00 pm is when I start my social time. It's at THIS time that I can reply to messages and I can chat, actually, I go online at this time on Discord. And please, try to contact me on Discord, Telegram is just for emergencies. During certain days I'll be kind of busy between 6:00pm and 8:00pm cuz that's the time when my Master streams and I'm his admin (as well as community manager), I can reply but will be slow.
So please, respect my time, I will be able to attend you starting from 6:00 pm central time North America YES I have my phone all day on, and YES I have telegram there... but PLEASE... unless you're dying or someone is dying (and we live in the same country and city and I can actually DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT), or is a complete emergency... DO NOT TALK TO ME BEFORE 6:00 PM! I need my time, I work on schedule... so please, if you're horny, save it for the evening, if you just want to talk, save it for later... if you just want to wish me a good morning... I know you do, you don't have to send me a message that will make me feel bad for telling you I am working or I am busy and I need my space. Don't send me a message for "me to watch it when I'm free" cuz I'll ignore it and you'll end up without a reply at all.
PLEASE, give me my time... I NEED IT! If you fail to do so... I'll be ashamed to say that.... I'll block you from either Telegram or Discord or Twitter or wherever you contact me... because I don't want to feel like shit like I'm feeling right now because I need time for myself and I'venot been allowed to have it since long ago. Ok? I don't know WHEN I started being so popular with people and they starting coming. Yes, at first I would help them solve their problems... but nowadays people just want ME to solve it for THEM! And I cannot!
Thank you for understanding, and sorry if I lost my shit up there...
EDIT: Also.... DO NOT PESTER ME ON SATURDAYS! That's the day I give to my boyfriend... all day till 7:00 pm
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23 Jan 2019 23:58 CET
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