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Jespah

Good Grief you drama-queens!

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Okay i gotta say this. I've posted up a few journals, not many, cause i don't really like when people type nonsensical journals that don't matter and then ignore the commenters.

But when i DO type journals no one gives a fuck. then the one time i post one where i ask people to ignore (because it's not an actual journal) that is for "linking" purposes, suddenly every drama queen who doesn't even associate with me, sees the journal SOMEHOW and comments on it, even starts fights. Just because they were privvy to the original drama someone else created, that shit falls in my lap, from people i hardly know!

Some furries...... i don;t know man, just some furries.....*shakes head* tsk
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Added: 6 years, 7 months ago
 
LittleOrion
6 years, 7 months ago
No, it was not the fact you posted a journal which made people so intent to comment,
it was the content, since it revolved around a friend of ours who is threatening to commit suicide.
To post a jounral like that, and expect NO replies, is very very very stupid of you.
And to post me a reaction, in all caps, while using the excuse of "wanting everyone to see it"
is double as stupid of you, im appauled by it.
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
You think it;s stupid and an excuse? How stupid are you? Did it ever occur to you that i was telling the truth and not yelling? Let;s say hypothetically and for the sake of argument that that was the truth and i wasn't actually yelling at you. How stupid would you feel, knowing you accused me of that? I got news for you, i did actually do that for the reasons i provided. Despite what you and others think, i am not a bitch and i keep telling you i do not need your approval to feel good about myself. I don't care what people think of me so if i was just going to yell at you, i'd have done it, telling you i was yelling at you and for every single reason i was doing it. When i say something, i say it because it's honest because i don't believe in cowardice, or lying. I believe if you are going to do something, then you do it because intend to back it up. So you can be angry and think i was throwing a tantrum if you want. But i'm just pissed at everything that is happening to me and people don't seem to be able to see through Tae's bullshit.

Furthermore, if i ask you not to reply to a journal and you do it anyway, that's disrespectful and you are the stupid one for thinking i won't be pissed off at it. I realize that you guys like Tae but i don't care. I cannot stop you from posting unless i block you and i haven't done that yet, but that doesn't mean you HAVE to post something. And if you wanted to post so bad you could have posted about what was on the journal instead of talking about the drama. So i have every right and reason to be pissed off at you, funny thing is i'm not really that pissed off at you, just annoyed.
LittleOrion
6 years, 7 months ago
If you're gonna make a journal, people are gonna feel they have full authority to comment on it, unless you said, you block everyone who ever intents to comment on your journal.
I'm not bothered wether it was yelling or not, to be perfectly honest, and if i look stupid then so be it. People who dont see your reaction was harsh and over the top, i dont even want to consider what they think of me.

And if you dont need my approval to feel good of yourself, i am somewhat glad.

But look at all the trouble you caused, first hurt tae and now being a complete ass to me, and people who take enough notice of you to want to comment on your shitty little journal.

I hope you do feel good about yourself.

Rally must be a fucking angel.
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
I';m not looking to feel good you idiot, i'm just posting the facts. Do you even know how i hurt Tae? And don't say "Bullying". I posted my only comment to him. the ONLY one i made in the last like 4 months. That's bullying? You and rally are friends so you can trust him when he says so unless you are going to call him a liar so you can sound like you're right. You don't even know what lead up to that PM. You have no idea what Tae said to Rally that Rally was angry about too! I don't need rally's permission to state my opinion about someone inviting him to be with someone else and if you, YOU?! lol think that i care if you think i'm a bad person, i have plenty of people who could contradict you without me even opening my fucking mouth. You mentioned rally being an angel? How about, you don't know everything and you don't know ANYTHING about me and have no idea what kind of a person i am. Fucking little know it all, got everything figured out huh? You saw one smear campaign against me from some drama queen teen, and suddenly you know everything about me. Piss off and don't bother commenting again. I'll just delete it and block you. See what i did there? I gave you a fair wanring
LittleOrion
6 years, 7 months ago
well funnily enough i don't care what tae says, i know he's not gonna do anything anyway.
and even if he did im not bothered.

im mainly just a bit disappointed by your big caps wall, as it FELT threatening and FELT mean to me... that's all im bothered about to be honest =3  

Prior to that wall of text, i was simply offering my opinions on how pointless this whole thing was...
but you chose me to paste a huge wall of text to?  I dont get it, what did i do wrong to deserve that?
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
You can take the text wall as you see best, but it was there so that everyone that passed it would see it and read it so that not just you but everyone got the message i was trying to get across. I don't want drama, i hate it, and Tae's friends brought it to my table. Last night i was threatened to which i replied go fuck yourself, and i'm not afraid of a confrontation. But that doesn't mean i go looking for it. What i said to tae was private but he made it public so i brought the facts to the table and now here i am stuck with the drama, as expected, but you brought it. Now you are saying you don't even care if he offs himself, so why are you even posting in my journals???

Not to sound like a smart-ass but suddenly it feels like you're backing off and trying to explain your feelings instead of attacking me. Was my warning a deterrent or what? Look you're preaching to the choir. I didn't ask for this drama but here it is, if you want to help, then either get people to stop, or back off and let me ride this out. Unless you're offering your support, i don't need any extra view points. I don't need comments. This shit is complicated enough as it is and i am NOT going to be nice to people as long as i'm in the middle of this shit
LittleOrion
6 years, 7 months ago
at no point in your journals did i even attempt to defend tae, i just commented on how pointless i think the whole thing was, im not backing off, i dont back off, as i said, i wasnt impressed by your reaction.  and... im getting sick of having to read massive paragraphs of your replies -.-'

i wont be offering you my support after how you reacted to me.
and still how you fault to understand how it would make me, a sensitive person would feel.
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
I didn't make the comment for your benefit and omg i do not care if you are getting sick of big replies if you don't like it just LEAVE! I don't NEED your support, have you read anything i said! I don't care if you support Tae or not, i didn't want your comment I DID NOT WANT YOUR COMMENT I DID NOT WANT YOUR COMMENT i asked every one NOT to comment. All i hear is you asking me to sympathize with you, but i'm the one dealing with DROVES of comments positive and negative about a topic i don't care about while i try to defend myself. I don't care if you were hurt by my comment, because YOU posted on a journal i asked people to ignore! If you wanna take offense then fine, i'm not your big brother, i'm not here to protect you and make you feel better cause you're so sensitive. This is a flame war and you don't need to be part of it. Once more i'd like to say "if you weren't offering your support to begin with, why did you comment on a journal that i asked people to ignore?" You asked for it, from my perspective. So... i'm going to give this a few minutes so you can read it, then i'm blocking you. But i want you to see this first
cooncub
6 years, 7 months ago
As you know I stay clear of drama as it hurts my body to get involved so I'm still your friend as I never take sides. hugs
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
That's a good trait to have. Unfortunately when a fight falls in my lap i usually don't back down. A bad trait of mine
KurodaTiger
6 years, 7 months ago
Silly furries and insanely high drama levels...Sorry your dealing with it, Jes. Shoot me an MSN msg sometime, you know I've got an ear(Two, in fact!) If you need someone to talk to.
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
Thanks man, it's nice to see someone i know that isn't involved in this bullshit.... you aren;t are you? >_>
KurodaTiger
6 years, 7 months ago
No. I am in fact not, in said bullshit.
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
Well if you decide to involve yourself, here *gives you knee-high rubber boots and overalls* it's deep shit. Real deep =p
KurodaTiger
6 years, 7 months ago
Lols. I don't plan on getting involved. Just being here to ease your tension some by lending an ear. Am on MSN. :)
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
Oh but come on it's a party! xD Everyone is having fun, now if i just had a fire-hose haha
RokukeShiba
6 years, 7 months ago
Drama if the life blood of furries, through we need to drain it... >.>
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
I try to stay clear of this kind of shit, but apparently i made the mistake of getting mad at someone with friends. It's amazing how many people will look for any reason to get into a fight
RokukeShiba
6 years, 7 months ago
Same. I hate getting involved in this kind of stuff. It's Like an invitation to a gang bang but everyone forgot the lube a pain the the ass.

Hit me up in msn? We can talk if you wish.
RallyReki
6 years, 7 months ago
omfg that was hilarious XD
HimaChita
6 years, 7 months ago
I know you don't like me Jespah but I hate to see how some people are jumping all over you over this shit. Even if Tae did kill himself, I would never consider it your fault, even if you gave him an knife personally. Comments might sh someone to the edge, but only that person can push themselves over the edge. I've delt with depression myself and I've realized I only have myself to blame when I get down. If people want to angry over this, they should get angry at the only person who controls the situation, Tae. Maybe if he saw how pissed his friends got at him for doing such, then he might change his ways, but that's probably won't happen until he learns he is the only person to blame for letting it get to him.

Anywho, I just wanted to post my opinon and to give you support, feel free to delete if you want to.
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
Thanks. Thing is i would be upset at someone if they pushed someone over the edge because i don't think that everyone is stable enough to handle that sort of thing. But i've known those people, and have been one of those people. I made a long comment about how i was suicidal too among some other not so nice but honest things but he deleted the comment so no one could see the truth about himself. Thing is i never said anything that would push him over the edge. I barely insulted him. I thank you for not blaming me but i wish people would see that i'm just someone to blame cause he is angry at me for not letting him make a move on my mate. Not to mention he's 14 and Nick is in his 20s and that's actually illegal and would hurt Nick a lot worse than he realized. And anyone who ever yiffed him >_> so yeah...
HimaChita
6 years, 7 months ago
I never knew about him making an move on Rally until I started to read over everything that was posted. That is an real shame, especially since everything is fine with you both right now. No one has any right to step between lovers. I didn't know je was 14 either, when I talked with him, he said he was 19. Not to mention the weird stuff he posted about having sex with an gitl and then getting upset that a boy that he considered his mate left him and then posting about possibly saving himself for Nick. Not to mention that he says he is homself but then is also going to school. I'm not sure what to make out about him.
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
That's funny cause he told rally and Nick he was 14 and told others he is 16. And now he told you he was 19? Lol and people trust this kid. Anyway yeah, i'm involved in this whole suicide thing as part of a smear tactic against me. I don't think i have anything to do with it, i'm just conveniently there to blame. So whatever. Don't listen to that kid. He's not honest.
HimaChita
6 years, 7 months ago
It's a real shame that there has to be someone to blame in these situations. I'm really sorry again it had to fall upon you as well, I can tell you have an good heart deep inside. At least Tae has posted that he is back now, so hopefully that will take most of the heat off of you, besides from those who overreacted earlier.
Jespah
6 years, 7 months ago
yeah i'm sure it's mostly over. If anyone has any sense they will read what i apparently said to bully him and that will make them think twice. Seems to have worked for one person but not for all. Oh well. I'm an adult, i can handle a few furries being mad at me, but it took up a fair bit of my day unfortunately. And today was rally's day off too, i wish this could have happened tomorrow... and my birthday is on wednesday too, darn =p
HimaChita
6 years, 7 months ago
Aww damn, that's an shame that it happened on Rally's day off, but hopefully that will just make for an joyous birthday for you to be done with all this drama. I hope you have the most festive time on your birthday as well. :3
CrazySerenity
6 years, 7 months ago
Oh my gosh. Drama over such stupid things. I have no idea what you were fighting about in the comments, but come on. Do people really need to argue? Oh well. Good luck to you.
Glynt
6 years, 7 months ago
what has the internet done to us?!
WHAT HAS IT DONE?!! :(
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