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BlitzWinters

So, is it just me, or....?  (Feedback very much appreciated.)

Okay, so this one's been bugging me for awhile, and I'm not sure how to word it, but I'm going to try.  It's been making me feel weird, and I think I just need other people's input.

I don't have a strong attachment to my gender.  It's not part of my identity.  Yes, I call myself male; but that's because I am, factually, male- I have a dick.  If I were to wake up tomorrow with a cunt and a pair of tits, I wouldn't care.  I would be surprised and confused, sure, and curious as fuck how it happened, but it wouldn't have any bearing on who I am.  I am me, and my gender doesn't affect that- it is, in fact, entirely irrelevant except in reproduction and medicine, as far as I'm concerned.  The same goes for anyone else's gender, too.

My point being, I've noticed that a lot of people around me do have strong attachments to their gender and that it is a part of who they are.  Does it make me weird that I don't?
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Added: 7 years, 8 months ago
 
Christoph
7 years, 8 months ago
You are you. Embrace it. Don't allow others to influence who you want to be or tell you who you should be.
BlitzWinters
7 years, 8 months ago
I know I am me, it's just that it was a realization that made me feel a little weird.
esanhusky
7 years, 8 months ago
I never associated well with my physical gender, and yeah, it does seem we're in the minority when it comes to that sort of thing.

Honestly, though, I'd personally be ecstatic to wake up to find an innie where my outie used to be, so I might not be in exactly the same boat as you
BlitzWinters
7 years, 8 months ago
-nods-  Yeah, we don't quite seem to be in the same boat, but I appreciate your support.  I feel like I should try to clarify a little more, too.  It's not that I identify as neither.  I just don't identify at all.
esanhusky
7 years, 8 months ago
I kinda got that, yeah.  I'm with you though that in every day life and such, I just don't even think about what I am or what anybody else is gender wise until it's pretty much shoved down my throat
DravenLoso
7 years, 8 months ago
there is acutally a term for people like that, not trans or anything...but its not weird as far as i know, soo you're good bud, it doesn't really matter to you soo...what the fuck who cares! *and now we know the reason behind herm heth* i kid x3 but yea, don't worry about it, there are others like that
BlitzWinters
7 years, 8 months ago
Herm Heth is just so I can play with more people.  xD  I'm greedy like that.
DravenLoso
7 years, 8 months ago
hehehe x3orjust be a cboy, apparetnly cboys get all the fun
BlitzWinters
7 years, 8 months ago
Yeah, but not all girls like cboys.
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