You know I've been thinking about something. Its about how quick a person can turn from a friend, a fan, an ally, to a hateful monster. All it takes is just the mere rumor to do it. Its happened to me before. Friends turned backstabbers, people that go from eagerly following my content to hating the very fact I exist, and turning the hate mob on me and those associated with me. These are not good things and definitely do allot of damage to one's heart. Even though the bouts of past dramas I dealt with are thankfully behind me by a good margin. Witnessing such hatred being unleashed upon others reminds me of what I had to go through.
I could go into a long winded sermon here about why hating on others is a bad thing and why you should not hate. I want to do that because it is a bad thing. I wish I had the power to hit stop button, come in and reprogram all of humanity to never hate, and take out all the other of Seven Deadly sins while Im at it, and then reboot But I know that those that choose to hate would never listen. They never listen to reason. Not from those who they hate and not from those that are simply trying to say cool your jets and give a chance for the hated to explain their side of a story, a concept that drives a court of law. The accusers present their case, evidence, and witnesses. The defense presents their case, evidence, and witnesses then Justice is served based purely upon whats on the evidence and testimonies.
No! Not with human beings. All it takes for a person to go from a civilized person into a hate monster foaming at the mouth are mere rumors, conjecture, and any form of misinformation even to the slightest. When hatred sets in that's it. Its over for the hater. Its too fucking easy to hate. I see that now.
It takes a person who is weak in character to hate because hate is soothing. It is an easy way to take out one's own frustrations at living life upon someone else. Its too easy to feel strong and powerful because hatred allows you to only see the flaws of the hated. Even if one's hatred is proven unfounded, the hater will make up things about the hated, out of fear of having their falsely inflated ego shattered by truth.
Oh yes. Ego and hatred go hand an hand. They play off of each other propelling a vicious cycle that builds upon itself and never lets up until the hater is consumed and rendered a lost cause. You, the hated nor anyone calling for logic and reason won't convince a hater to stop hating. You are wasting your time and energy. The hater is a weak person who is too afraid to face the flaws with themselves and will fight to the bitter end to never emerge from behind there inflated ego fueled by the fires of hatred burning within the hater's heart. Haters will never see the light of truth because they refuse to regardless if the hated is indeed bad or good.
This mindset is the reason I don't bother with drama whores, edge lords, and rotten people. I just don't bother engaging haters in any arguments but instead jump straight for the block button. Its also the reason I will say this to anybody that is following me, those sizing me up for following friending, watching, whatever. If you are the type that believes rumors instead of researching or find yourself hating another person based on what you have been told without giving an accused person a chance to defend themselves and explain there case, then I am not a person you should follow. I don't want to be influenced by hatred. I don't want my own heart to be tainted by it.
Given the ups and downs I had to deal with in my past, I paid my dues. Witnessing the latest wave of hatred going around on well known individuals in the furry fandom. I am reminded as to why I feel the way I currently feel. I want to surround myself with people who listen to reason. I want to be around people that don't judge others based on trivial nonsense. I want to be around people who are happy that I can feed off from their positive vibes and who are willing to feed off of positive vibes I would like to radiate out. I want to be close to positive people so I can be positive right back to them. Its who I want to be and that is something I want to work at.
So on that, here is the bottom line. Haters don't have a place in my social network regardless if hatred is directed at me or any other person no matter who they are or what their story is. I don't need that crap in my life nor do I want to expose my existing friends and followers to such vitriol. I want to to live up to what my furry character is all about. That is to set aside one's own selfish desires for the sake of seeking the truth in all things. Being that I myself am a human being with human flaws too, working on making that goal is not easy. Haters only make the work that much harder.
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