Let's talk about it, 'cause I need to get this out of my mind. It hunts me a lot these days so I need to write this down!
In many fanfictions I read the term "lovemaking" or "love act" etc. But I'm always asking myself: 'What has sex to do with love?' It is not the same and you can not identify sex with love! Or, can you?
Maybe it's because of the experince I made in my life (I wasn't being raped or molested, mostly it was just bad experience with the wrong man and it confused me a lot because I was only 16.) but I see sex as the ect itself and nothing more.
Why do you say 'I have sex with the one I love to show him/her how much I care.'? And isn't it enough to show the one you love just to say 'I love you. I want to be with you.' Why you have to 'proof' this??? And why then is sex something you can buy on streets from prostitudes?
Sex is in our genes as a primary need like eating, drinking, breathing. I get this - we need it, but I can't and WON'T identify sex as love or love as sex.
'Lovemaking' is just a term but why do you 'make love'? You have sex!
I know sex with the one you love is more satisfying, you can do more because you trust them, but why do we use it to betray and hurt each other?
Sex is a very small grade, a very thin line between love and hatred. So why do people identifiy this with love?
I'm very curious about your reactions, your views and opinions (and maybe advices? :)) on this topic.
Sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong with me while I'm asking those questions, because it could be nothing. But there are times I'm too confused of the way people see some things and how I see it. :/
(This is not about to judge anyone. Just different point of views...)
When something's bothering me, I feel safe and secure when I crawl into myself. Raph represents my feelings right now and this time I used his eye-color as the skin and the skin-color for his eyes.
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