Every year, today becomes a lovey-dovey mushfest for people who are dating.
And it becomes a sad-sack dump-fest for a lot of people who aren't. I just want to point out a few things to the party poopers.
For every happy smushy lovey bubbly couple you see and just want to punch, remember that none of them popped out of the womb holding hands with each other - everybody was single before they were dating. Expressing a disdain for people who have someone sends a message you maybe don't want to send to anyone who might just happen to have been thinking it would be nice to have you someday.
When you say anything to the effect of "Nobody loves me" it is saying quite plainly to every person who DOES give half a shit about you that you completely dismiss, ignore, or otherwise just don't count any concern or affection they've thrown your way.
When you piss on other people being happy about something, it is not attractive or appealing or endearing to anyone who isn't of the mind that pissing on other peoples' happiness is inherently fun in and of itself - which won't be people you really want in your orbit should you ever accidentally find yourself being happy one day.
The fewer people you have around you making you feel loved or cared for, the MORE of a fuck-sack move it is for you to go around moping that you have nobody, because of how shit that is to those special few you should be fucking treasuring - and even if none of them are date material, use today as an opportunity to show them you CARE that they care.
On the off chance that through very unlikely circumstances you actually ARE truly and completely alone in this world without a single soul who gives half a fuck about you - being bitter and resentful to people not sharing that fate is the last thing that's going to change that for you. But really, odds are, there's SOMEONE out there who exists and makes you feel like it's worth existing along with them.
Love isn't just about who you share a bed with, and today shouldn't be either.
Stop being a trendy little hipster emo shit and dumping on a day about Love, you're not invoking some clever brilliant insight by declaring it corporate money-grabbing because EVERY holiday is that, stop being a whiny cunt that you don't have a date because that's how you PREVENT yourself from ever having one. Instead, go find someone who matters to you even if you never want to bump uglies with them, and just make sure they know they matter. And maybe someone you matter to will do the same for you and you can be a little less of a sad sack.
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15 Feb 2017 05:22 CET
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