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Batarang91

My son has a crush on Judy Hopps

I mean what are the odds, i was about half his age when i started my crush on Lola bunny, and now my baby boy has got a crush on an anthro rabbit,  i mean, i have no idea if i should feel proud,  found this to be funny.

I mean i don't want him to found all the porn featuring his waifu. ..not yet, he still too young,  good thing his mom doens't allow him to use the computer

So yeah, that's about it

Weird for my first journal, no?
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Added: 7 years, 2 months ago
 
KaoNocturatzu
7 years, 2 months ago
Ah, hehe, being in this situation is actually a really good thing for you as a father since you're aware of what it means to be a furry in a sense. I'd say that while he's still far too young to get into the deep end of that pool, it's best to still let his affection for Judy develop since it will encourage him to learn a lot of really great skills like Art and help keep him happier to have something to look up to. Like encourage him to try sketching Judy or take art classes in school so he can develop extremely useful creative thinking skills. It's the same kind of stuff that kept me going as a kid and kept inspiring me to keep learning and pursuing my goals.

As he starts to get older, like around pre-teen, that's when you can slowly explain the kind of stuff he is likely to come across and while I wouldn't discourage it, I'd guide him through it to make sure that he can enjoy the more mature aspects without becoming too perverted, let the interest be constructive rather than an escape. Then that interest can be channeled into successful skills in the future. Your son will be fine! :)
Batarang91
7 years, 2 months ago
According to his mother he wrote a letter / poem to Judy,  and we are talking about taking him for art lessons this summer. I mean I would love to be there for him all the time, but, emmm, let us say that things between his mom and me are complicated, so i just come visit them every time i can, and they keep on contact with him.  I wish i could be there to share the experience of his first crush, but alas, least his mom told me about it, and im planing to show him space jam, so he can meet the character that made his dad sigh tenderly

And yeah,  there is a long road till he becomes a teen, he will just turn 8 on august,  so yeah there is still a long time ahead of us, and when the time of his sexual awekening comes i want it to be natural.  But yeah like you said keep an eye on him to know how he feels, what kind of stuff he has on his mind and such
KaoNocturatzu
7 years, 2 months ago
That's so wonderful! I'm really happy for you. I'm sorry to hear that things are complicated as I know this day and age it can be rough, but it's still really sweet to hear that you're giving your child the best. My parents were the same way, while they had thier eyes on the right track, they still encouraged me to do things the way I felt was best while keeping me on track for what's important. I find that whether you're 2, 12, or 24 (I'm 25), the fact that you can always talk to your parents and trust them is the greatest luxury any kid could have. I'll admit, I felt awkward coming out of the furry closet when I showed my parents my artwork, but they both accepted my interest and encouraged me to do big things with it. My mom even wants me to make a Kao Ninjaratzu Costume cause she thinks it's really neat that I'm into crafts and costume building, and my dad kept encouraging me to learn to program so I could turn my characters into video games. I'm currently working as a web developer thanks to a website I made for myself based on that motivation. So that's why I'm so happy to hear your story!
Batarang91
7 years, 2 months ago
Now that is just sweet,  is heart warming to know you are that close with your parents, if you ask me i do belive that the best support people can get comes from their parents,  it helps them grow as persons, also help develop self steem . good luck with your current projects, so far im loving your style.

And about my kid, i will spare the details, years ago Sofia  (my child's mother ) and i were on relationship,  thing was, crisis happened, and we had to take different roads on life, soooo neither of us knew she was pregnant,  last year our paths crossed and welp ,we talked, we are talking about rebuilding our relationship, and the most important thing..meeting and bonding with my kiddo..heh he looks a damn lot like my mom, is..magical if you ask me
KaoNocturatzu
7 years, 2 months ago
Ah! That's really good to know you're both willing to do what's best for the child and try to make it work. Definitely shows that you're a responsible and respectable pair. Life happens for sure, but it's how we react to the things we do that show what kind of person we are. After all, it's never too late to do the right thing. :)

Thank you so much for your kind words! I'll keep doing my best! Amazing talk and a great pleasure to meet you!
Batarang91
7 years, 2 months ago
That is what im talking about.  I want to be there for them, my Raul still has no idea i am his dad, but first i want to become his friend you know,  i want him to know he can count on me, and on time tell him the truth.  Sofia and i are at the moment at long distance relationship, we live on the same Country, but we live in different cites hours apart  (we both live in Mexico ) , and i go visit them as often as possible, like you said i want to make up for those ages i was not there

And like wise,is always nice when people are open minded like you nwn , and im looking foward to see more of your work
KatarinaTheCat18
7 years, 1 month ago
I understand how you feel. You are a very good father. When I was 11 I saw Yaoi and porn stuff on internet.
Batarang91
7 years, 1 month ago
There is nothing bad about it, i was about 13 when i saw hentai xD

But, you see he will turn 8 in july,  so yeah he is really young

I know some day he will find adult content, but when it happens i want to be there for him,  you know, explain what is going on, and why is it normal,  make sure he wont feel bad
KatarinaTheCat18
7 years, 1 month ago
I see. My parents were pissed off at me that I watched that stuff as 11.
Batarang91
7 years, 1 month ago
Tsk tsk, parents should not be mad at their children because of that  :/

When my dad found out i watched porn he was very cool about it, he told me to ask him any doubt,  i mean every one of us get in contact with material of that kind, and there is nothing to be ashamed about it
KatarinaTheCat18
7 years, 1 month ago
Yeah. But sometimes it can be ashame, depends of what age the kids are.
Batarang91
7 years, 1 month ago
As i say, it is normal, all that kids need is guidance from their parents,  good thing Raul is 7, and his mom keep him away from the pc
KatarinaTheCat18
7 years, 1 month ago
Yeah.
Batarang91
7 years, 1 month ago
Also thanks for saying i'm a good dad x3

I try my best for being the best dad for my kiddo
KatarinaTheCat18
7 years, 1 month ago
^^ By the way, Happy late B-Day. My B-Day is March 12 which I will turn 23.
Batarang91
7 years, 1 month ago
Oh cool, wish you the best on that day. Also, nice 23, i turned 25 on February 15th xp
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