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Kooskia

The pleasure of choking (IRL)

Well... here another of my sporadic journals reasoning of kinks in real life I experienced and could be featured in future pics.

This time (with ex-gf) I could explore something I already witnessed before in arts but never imagined could be so cool.

Choking is essentially something I associated with "hurting" behavior, and while it seems a bad thing at first, it's a bit a turnon when the partner ask and beg you to be treated like this. There is something maybe in the concept of enjoying the domination, the power upon the sexual partner well...


It was indeed very hot. Enough to make me turned on in a matter of few seconds after my sexual thrill was already expended. As a little detail I could suggest it's fingering the partner while doing it,  keeping on her side, to fully admire how her body arch and contract while struggling between pleasure and discomfort.

Obviously WARNINGS!  It's enough to put a soft-moderate pressure, with pauses and allowing the partner to breath. Plus give also time during this pauses for safe-words or safe-signs to stop the playing.


Previous past similar journals:
Spanking (with same ex-gf):  https://inkbunny.net/journalview.php?id=211378
Hard spanking + Watersports (with a furry friend):  https://inkbunny.net/journalview.php?id=232936

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Added: 7 years, 5 months ago
 
hotwert
7 years, 5 months ago
You get to try more and more. :D
I can imagine it's hot if one does it at one's partner. But I wouldn't like to get chocked myself.
Kooskia
7 years, 5 months ago
Honestly I would be a bit terrified, but she was very up for it. And... it was quite weird, I doubt it has been really hard as more experienced kinky furs could have tried. But well, another thing to adds at the list.
It is weird btw, with age (passing the 25) at least in my case got less chances for frequency of sex, but more chances to try new things.
eljot001
7 years, 5 months ago
Hahah, an in the m8rning I saw someone mention on twitter they had some morning breathplay XD

Like with most kinks I can see why people could be into it but I'm unsure if I'd see myself in it. Well, definitely not as the one being chocked, no-no. I guess I could be peesuaded to play on the other person but that'd have to entirely their initiative. I can totally see how it could be hot for someone who gets off on this bit of adrenaline and feeling of temporary helplesness.
Kooskia
7 years, 5 months ago
It is more or less what happened to me (in terms of initiative). And I can adds that given chance you should try it like the others I posted above. Just for this one there is a need of some self-control and skill to keep part of your mind clear. However there are many middle-grounds for it: for once it's just cool to "hold" the neck, and apply a bit of pressure without real choking.
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