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ButtercupSaiyan

Absent May 18-30 for traveling / Fanime convention

I'll be gone May 18-31 for traveling up to Ohio and then going by train to attend the FAnime convention in San Jose, California to meet my boyfriends Sean and Elle. I don't have much to say about that that doesn't involved me turning into a moeblob, so I won't.

I've never been on a train before! I hope it's fun. I better bring lots of books and my sketchpads just in case.
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Added: 7 years, 7 months ago
 
liontaro
7 years, 7 months ago
wait you have 2 boyfriends? D: *gasp*

you better bring lots of books and sketchpads for the trainride. trust me, it could be really boring if there aren't any fun people to talk to...
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 7 months ago
Well, I'll have Sean to talk to...

Yes, I have 2 boyfriends. The scandalized gasp isn't really necessary since they more than know each other. >_>; I guess I should have been more specific: the trip was to get all of us together.

Someone PMing one of them and going "Did you know BCS was with someone else!?" would get nothing but a scathing laugh and scorn in reply.
liontaro
7 years, 7 months ago
hehe i was just wondering xD

at least you have someone to talk to. but i would still take some sketchbooks and books with you. just in case. ;D
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 7 months ago
Yeah. I wish I had some new books, I guess I'll bring some old ones instead. Maybe Wheel of Time, that oughta keep me busy.

Yeah *coughs* I don't talk about it in the open (re: real life) because I'm not "out" about being bisexual or poly, especially not in fucking bigot central aka mid-Florida. I'm not prepared to have that conversation with my mom yet, anyway. Her head would explode just if I told her that I had two serious girlfriends before. She knows about Elle, but that's it. I'll jump that hurdle when it becomes clear that the triad is stable for the long-term.

But, basically, it's only considered cheating if you lie to one or more partners. The terms aren't absolute, but I tend to practice polyfidelity myself. My love life is complicated enough as it is... I've only had maybe 3 lovers my whole life and the same goes for them as well. A lot of people confuse it with promiscuity... and it's not. I tend to be monogamous, my current triad only happened because Elle told me he had a boyfriend and I still had feelings for him. I was completely prepared to bite my feelings back and move on, but I ended up falling for Sean and things went from there.
liontaro
7 years, 7 months ago
i'm not pretty sure about ot, but i THINK i'm bisexual / poly. if i really am, i'm not afraid of the conversation with my parents because they already told me that it's okay for them if i'm straight, gay or whatever. xD

i also only had 2 girlfriends my whole life, so i'm worse than you :3
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 7 months ago
Ah, if you've not confirmed, it's usually called bicurious (it doesn't mean that you're not serious about it! ... it just means that you haven't quite verified it yet.)

Don't worry. Some people like to pretend they are at an all-you-can-eat buffet... but I think that taking the time to be serious about a relationship and maintain it is far more important than sampling a bunch of different people. It's good to find out what kind of person is compatible with you—it helps you in the future. But I think it's equally important to know how to work through differences because no matter who you love, even if it's family and your best friend, those tactics will still be important.
liontaro
7 years, 7 months ago
thanks for listening :3
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