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Delquea

And this is why I don't express myself much.

Because so many people are positive its always directed at them which leads to drama that can be easily avoided if they just calm down and realize I never was pointing fingers. And if it was any of you, I'd directly contact you about it.
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Added: 5 years, 4 months ago
 
LunatheDusky
5 years, 4 months ago
*hugs* i always prefer to be posistive but i know how you feel hun ^^ keep your chin up
ZephyrFluff
5 years, 4 months ago
I guess people are worried to get on your bad side
Delquea
5 years, 4 months ago
They shouldn't assume though. If I'm mad at them I will make it known to them, not vent how difficult it is to vent.
ZephyrFluff
5 years, 4 months ago
thats true to
ButtercupSaiyan
5 years, 4 months ago
I know how that feels...
sonictopfan
5 years, 4 months ago
I'm really sorry for the misunderstanding but like I explained I had a bad week so it seemed like I was the one you pointed to, anyway I'm sorry about this.

I want you to always express your feelings though, really I want all my friends to express their feelings and talk if they have a hard time even if it's a small issue, I know it's not easy and I'm not the kind of a person who would explain much when I have an issue either, I'm the kind that you can easily tell he's depressed or angry but never wanna talk about it but it's not right to do so, talking about your problems always help make you overcome your pain, Del I care for you, you're my friend, I want you to feel free to open up to me and talk to me about any problems you may have, you never know if I can help but you'd be surprised what friends can do, the past couple of days I was at a point where I prayed to die many times I just don't have a reason to live anymore but my friend tried to talk to me on skype and get me through it, she thinks she failed because I was too depressed and the internet cut afterwards so she thought I have left but truth is she helped me realize that if I die there might be some people (maybe two or three) who will notice my absence, friends can help you through your pain.
CloudedFuture
5 years, 4 months ago
Seems to be a common occurrence on any sort of remotely social website, when it comes to venting. It's why I like to stick to an "innocent until proven guilty" type mindset when I see vent journals/statuses/whatever, because I would hope if someone had an issue with me, they'd take it to me personally. Everyone deserves to be able to vent their frustrations when need-be, but people reacting harshly to a vent and assuming it's about them only tends to make the situation far worse, and cause more grief to the OP and themselves. It's understandable some may become concerned about it, but in the end it's best to just swallow that fear and wait it out to see what happens. As that can save everyone a lot of stress, drama, and frustrations in the long run.
7vem
5 years, 4 months ago
cuz duun worry ^^ u can poke me all day i wont get upset at u =3
7vem
5 years, 4 months ago
just let me nom on ur ear every once in a while okay ^_^
NemoTVChampion
5 years, 4 months ago
I guess some people have a hard time not assuming the worst when they see a vent.  I myself do get paranoid a bit when I see vents from friends, cause I've never had many friends (life story here blah blah) so thus nasty habbit of assuming they hate me or soemthing.. sometimes x.x

But do keep your chin up like arty said x3 *hug*
rosebuster
5 years, 4 months ago
*huggles you tight*
NikkiBoundWolf
5 years, 4 months ago
it annoys me when people always assume, when you say anything, it's about them >.> But that's human nature to assume, all I can suggest is clarifying it, if they ask, it's stupid to not express yourself though, especially when there are a lot of people that care about you, and can help you if you're upset out something, but they won't know without you telling about it, so they cannot help :/
Shokuji
5 years, 4 months ago
Gotta be careful about what you say and how you say it.
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