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Is it so wrong?

by Delquea

That I want to do a RP that involve a male sex slave rather than a female sex slave?

Cos apparently a friend of mine felt upset that I wanted to stop doing female sex slave/pet stuff for a while (for PERSONAL reasons I will ONLY share with very close friends) in favor of wanting to do a scenario that involved a male sex slave/pet.

Apparently I'm still forced to subject to something that makes me uncomfortable and yet my friend can freely object to stuff that makes them uncomfortable. I still feel like a second banana with little rights around them because of all this.

Seriously I dont get why almost everyone I know are total hypocrites who free to do the shit they dont even want me doing. Its the reason why I feel like there are only 4 people *whom I'm not naming but you know who you are c: * whom I get along with perfectly with not a single issue while everyone else, not so much....

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Added:	11 years ago 03 Apr 2013 04:18 CEST

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seanbunneh

11 years ago

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It's not wrong, and you should mention your feelings to them as well, it's not right to not keep equal rites to suit another party.

Delquea

11 years ago

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@ seanbunneh

Did, all they said is that I did it back then but that when I was fine with it, but too much of it caused me to become uncomfortable with it. They are pretty much free to choose what they will and won't do, but I feel as if I can never do that without setting them off.

KevinSnowpaw

11 years ago

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RP's are best handled thusly, nothing should be done that makes the other person uncomfortable. If you cant RP with that individual because you cant find common ground or no compromise can be made then you shouldent RP with them, find somebody whos more comfortable with your kinks. It's nothing person against your friend or anything if you guys dont like the same stuff then you just dont like the same stuff.

Delquea

11 years ago

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@ KevinSnowpaw

It isn't the manner of liking this and that. It how while they don't want to do something they dont like but still expect me to do something I'm uncomfortable with making them somewhat a hypocrite.

KevinSnowpaw

11 years ago

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@ Delquea

thats entirely fair you should have every write to say no to any kink that makes you uncomfortable.

PaperMercenary

11 years ago

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It is not wrong, Delly. It is just that some people don't want to surrender control online like they do in real life. However from what it sounds like, you need to stand up for yourself and put your foot down, whether it upsets them or not. Its Not okay to do something that you're uncomfortable with if they themselves wont do the same for you.

With all that said, I'm open for roleplaying. :D The slave/master theme is one I like but I can never seem to find someone dominant enough to be a good master, and when they Are dominant enough, they're vicious about it and I'm not a fan of pain, restraint without my full consent (with exceptions) or generally being treated like shit.

Delquea

11 years ago

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@ PaperMercenary

I intend to start enforcing that more.

And depends. Is it a male who wanna be the slave, cos then I would be happy to.

PaperMercenary

11 years ago

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@ Delquea

I try not to roleplay as anything but my own gender, which is indeed male. I don't understand enough about female anatomy and mindset to be able to roleplay as one. Herm I could maybe pull off.

Lotamo

11 years ago

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Sounds like it's time to start denying them the RP they obviously want from you. If they don't respect you enough to heed as simple a thing as "I'd rather not RP this right now"... then they aren't really a good friend at all. Especially with such a potentially sensitive RP subject as slavery.

I say bail on 'em. Let them stew in boredom and withdrawal without your RP for a while. You don't need that disrespect.

~Kit

(PS: You probably don't need someone like me, who you don't even really know that well, telling you this but... The moment that you give in and suffer through the things they want you to do, in spite of your own uncomfortable feelings... is the moment that you give them permission to walk all over you as long as they wish. Stand up against it.)

CottonCandyPanda

11 years ago

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Edited 11 years ago by Owner

WELL, I could try it. BUT, does it have to be a furry, because I only got Hyoomans thus far in that department.

RollerCoasterViper59

11 years ago

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Hell, I wouldnt mind being a part of that RP :P

PlaneshifterLair

11 years ago

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Ufff, I see. Neh, there's nothing wrong with you.
I mean, is of if they don't want to, if it's not their thing, but if they act like you SHOULD do what they want? now THAT's bad.

merlynn

11 years ago

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Edited 11 years ago by Owner

Well,that all depends on what you want them to do. Even slaves have a right to say no if they're not cool with doing something. And any decent dom would know this. So yeah,you're hanging out with wannabes.

If you're talking about a situation where you're the sexual aggressor and some light spanking/bondage,I think most guys would be ok with that. The more "out there" you get,tho,the more difficult partners will be to find.

Weiss

11 years ago

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I dont think its wrong pesonaly,i do alot of those with my character they can be quite fun

NemoTVChampion

11 years ago

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It's very very wrong indeedy.

I hope that person realizes that what they did was wrong making you uncomfy >> *huggle* like I said last night I'd be fine with male slave.. as long as its a genderbend of one of my sonas X//D