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Puggy

Is there anything wrong with me? ._.

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So, Hi there people,just passing by to update you guys about things...

So, I tried to have my move with my crush last satursday,I had my first drinks with her and I told her everything I thought about her...   and she just friendzoned me without any mercy.... and the worst part, she started flirting with my friend RIGHT AFTER THAT and in front of me!!     and I can't understand....  why....  WHY PEOPLE KEEP DOING THIS TO ME? every god-damn time I find a nice girl she just discard me...   in all these years I never had a SINGLE date that ended up working....

I came up home on satursday in tears, but luckly I have friends that love me, they are always there for me when I'm down,and I just love all of them.  One of them even offered to me to try some sexy things with me in easter day to make me happy...   and I'm going for it,I will not waste any more chances ever again....   I'm going to try new things,and suffer no more for anyone...
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Added: 5 years, 8 months ago
 
EnvyChu
5 years, 8 months ago
-hugs- I don't know you but you deserve hugs :3
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
.-. Thaanks *hugs back*
EnvyChu
5 years, 8 months ago
np ^^ hope you enjoy the fun with your friend :3
FlyingFox
5 years, 8 months ago
Males are less picky so if you swing both ways maybe its time to try a male ;)
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
To say the truth the person ho is coming over in easter is actually a male friend...   I though: "I'm young,he likes me,we have a deal...   why not?"   and you got a point, males don't get angry if you do things just for the "physical" part,unlike women...
BunnyFoxglove
5 years, 8 months ago
Oh soooo true... I hope you enjoy it, and have some fun. It's good to be open-minded and try things. You never know what you'll like until you do! :3
ColdScourge
5 years, 8 months ago
If you enjoyed/enjoy this, maybe consider...other possibilities?
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
Other possibilities?
ColdScourge
5 years, 8 months ago
Well, Your friend offered to...assist you with things...Maybe see if you can't turn it into something a little more...lasting? I'm a terrible source of relationship advice, so don't quote me too much on this
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
Well, there IS a posibility,but only the time can tell what will happen next...
ColdScourge
5 years, 8 months ago
What happens happens. I'm sorry to hear that you were put in this position, and wish you the best of luck in your endeavours
RonaldMcCoon
5 years, 8 months ago
Awwwww *huggles* I had problems with my girlfriends too. That's probably one of the reasons why I don't have one now.
AlexCoon
5 years, 8 months ago
She don't knows the awesome guy she let go!
I know that things hurts.. even if im to afraid for ask that at someone..
You got a point here, you can count with ur friends, that's good.
Dont feel bad for that things, im glad hear you said you gonna try new things, you're smart, dont suffer more my friend :)
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
Yeah...  .-.  I think she likes more the douchebag guys than the ones ho actually care for her (her last boyfriend cheated on her right in front of her...)

Luckly, I have the best friends in the world around me,they are deeply concerned about me and supportive no matter what.
AlexCoon
5 years, 8 months ago
Tha's the attitude buddy :D
ButtercupSaiyan
5 years, 8 months ago
I don't know the circumstances well enough to answer but personally, desperation is the number one thing I don't like and the number two thing I don't like is emotional manipulation. But who knows?

It could have been the way you dressed, smell, moved... chemistry is weird. Who can say? You'll only find out if you ask her.
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
actually there are some things I omitted here, like what she said to me after I declared myself to her,she said : "we are the kind of persons that could only get along as friends,ever"   and after all that, when she couldnt even walk due to her drunkness, didn't got mad at her that she puked all over me,I took her home, left her at her place and she said: "go away now"

I did everything for this to work out, dressed the way she like, started liking the same things she do, I did let her choose an expensive drink for us, paid everything (including the taxi,wich costed me a 100 bucks) and cleaned the taxi after she puked there too (so the driver wouldn't charge her the cleaning...)  and everyone said that we would be perfect together since she said she liked me, we were very close, and very alike...  I just can't figure out why...
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
Sorry if I was rude to you, I am just mad and I freak a little when I am mad...   ._.
ButtercupSaiyan
5 years, 8 months ago
I think I'm getting a picture here but yes. I think I see.

I'm sorry your efforts were in vain, sir. Better luck next time! Plenty of fish in the sea!
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
Thanks BCS, I will try to get over it as soon as I can...
King30
5 years, 8 months ago
Evil meanie people! There's nothing wrong with you. If I knew you in real life, we'd probably be great friends. Kinda wish we could be. This is about you though. Have some hugs. *feel better hugs* I hope you feel better soon. If you need someone to vent or just complain about life to, I'll be here for you k? :D
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
thanks bro '-'
King30
5 years, 8 months ago
No problem. Hope I could help you feel better. ^w^
Fonso
5 years, 8 months ago
I'm very sorry for you to hear that! I don't want to sound like an asshole / a sexist now, but personally, I think that most women are like that, using their sexappeal to get guys' attention just to either break their heart or take their money or etc.. Males are much lovlier, cooler, just... not like women... and weirdly, cases like that are kind of usual in relationships m/f I noticed.

Anyway, I hope you will feel better very soon, nobody deserves bad emotions! *lovely hugs you*

SenGrisane
5 years, 8 months ago
Sad to hear that. You are not the only one with that feeling.
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
did you had a similar experince man? .-.
SenGrisane
5 years, 8 months ago
Sort of. I usually am too shy to speak up at all .
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
Thant's awful man .-.  I hope you can be able to move on just as I did.
SenGrisane
5 years, 8 months ago
Well... I found out I am in general not that emotional. I don't go as high as most people do, but I also don't fall as low. Has advantages and disadvantages.
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
I know what you mean, it's very rare to me to expose any strong emotions at all, I am well known for my stone-heart for most of the occasions.
Guil
5 years, 8 months ago
Hope the thing get better soon dude :3
Puggy
5 years, 8 months ago
thanks Guil, always worried with me ^^  hopefully they will soon!
BlazeHeartPanther
5 years, 8 months ago
so soffy to hear that buddy
SL350
5 years, 8 months ago
I'm sorry this happened to you.  I wasn't there, so I can't judge.  What I can tell you though is to stay positive.  Seriously!  Stay positive.  Negativity only breeds more negativity.  Sometimes people tend to say things will never get better, but guess what?  It probably won't with that mentality.  Take some time for yourself to reflect.
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