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Problems with friends IRL <<<<READ

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Hello everyone and welcome to Problems with friend IRL with todays Host Shippo

Hello everyone, have you ever had a problem with a friend you'd like to say something to a friend but didn't because your too nice to do it? Do you ever have the feeling of wanting to hurt them? Do you ever have the feeling you wanna scream and yell at them? Do you ever have the feeling you wanna call them names even horrid ones? Do you ever wanna be able to talk to your "Friends" parents and tell them how you feel about your "Friend" ??? and so much more....



Well I for one have gone through it and continue to go through with it, not by alot of friends but just by one in particular!

I have so many issues with my "Friend" I am suprised I havent been driven to drink yet ( I don't drink alcohol except on special occasions Yuck on Beer ) Anyways getting back on topic. So many of us grow up as children watching cartoons and some if not alot of us continue to do so. One day she said to me that I should stop watching cartoons because of my age!!!! and that it's not normal for Adults to watch cartoons or something like that! >.> That it wasn't proper or whatever the hell she said but than the kicker is she said I can keep watching cartoons if I want its my choice....yet "New Friend" has seen "Friend" watch Sailor Moon! >.<  Talk about being a *BLEEPING* Hypcrite!

Her using Hand Sanitizer for almost everything drives me nuts and her mother too!

Her always trying to get a freebie out of me or of a family member or a special discount (because of being a friend >.> )

The fact she almost always raids the cupboards when she comes over for a visit ( Mind you she does ask ) but every time she comes over she eats....Its like what isn't what your mother have over there to eat good enough for ya??

Her wanting me to clean up after myself at her parents is fine and dandy yet when she is over here she tends to leave wrappers etc laying around......Not always but ALOT of times >.>

What also infuriates me is How she treats her father ( Her mother is in on it too ) as well as her mother.

Her mother asks her for help on learning more about useing a computer etc.....She doesnt help....but if she does its sooo quick she doesnt give her mother time to learn it. So whenever she is on the computer and I am over I help her mother, just recently I setup a wireless Printer for her mother.

And if she doesn't get her way or etc she makes a fuss etc

So many issues that my brain is actually not able to think of more right now but they are there XD
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Added: 6 years, 2 months ago
 
Coop
6 years, 2 months ago
That must suck.
Shippo
6 years, 2 months ago
Yes yes it does suck but I wonder how her parents feel about her I wonder what they think of what kind of future she will have etc
Coop
6 years, 2 months ago
idunno
Tycloud
6 years, 2 months ago
You should probably be honest with her.  But be careful.  Some people freak out when confronted with hard truths like that.
Shippo
6 years, 2 months ago
She I think would probably fall under the type to freak out and I dont wanna go through with that XD Im just so looking forward to moving with my folks as this will solve my issues with her being on the other side of the country!! Mwahahaha!! ^___^
Herokyrian
6 years, 2 months ago
It's not easy telling someone that they are being a hypocrite. My step mom was the same way, she would expect so much from her son when he was home but could care less when he was out in public.

I found the best thing to do, at least for me, was to just talk to them. Don't blow up on them just suddenly but ease your way into the conversation and bring up little things that bother you. If they are a friend they will understand. Hope it works out for you and your friend.
Shippo
6 years, 2 months ago
Nor is it ever easy to tell a friend how you feel about them especially with ones who have cut themselves in the past
betatest
6 years, 2 months ago
i learned an easy way to make Botchalism all you need is garlic and olive oil
CodieCub
6 years, 2 months ago
Stop being friends with her... If she is so annoying and such a pain just stop ^^

I had a "friend" for 10 years and she was nothing but a rude, disrespectful, mean, selfish, and all kinds of other word to describe a bad person, but she only started acting like this in the last two years of knowing her, so when I gave her so many chances, (my parents AND her parents literally begged me too) I gave up and said sorry to both sets of parents and dropped her like the bad habbit she was ^^

So I don't know if this helps or not but just a little word of advice from someone who had a similar situation <3
Shippo
6 years, 2 months ago
I will be moving with my folks out of state soon enough its another reason why Im staying friends with her till than. Then it will only contact by online and thats alooooot more bearable
CodieCub
6 years, 2 months ago
Well thats good right?
Shippo
6 years, 2 months ago
Yes yes it is and than I will just have to deal with living out there which will be easy and fine :)  because I have alot of friends on here *hugs you all* :)
ivorykitsune
6 years, 2 months ago
The best friends are the ones that can look past each other's shortcomings.
Shippo
6 years, 2 months ago
I have been doing that for a long time a person can only handle so much XD Especially when said person gets worse over the years and can only give her so many chances I do continue to hope she grows up and stops all her problems
RocketZX
6 years, 2 months ago
i got a friend who stopped going to college classes, does nothing but smokes (when I say smoke, i'm not talking about cigs) and watches streaming videos almost all day, blows all his money on shit he doesn't need (bought a 3DS I never saw him play it ever). only reason i'm friends with him is because I got no one else who games with me let alone call me on a weekly basis.
I told him (nicely) why doesn't he stop smoking and go back to school etc, he just doesn't care anymore it seems.
I'm surprised his parents don't throw him out of his house, that's what mine would do, I almost got kicked out cause I failed a class!!
Shippo
6 years, 2 months ago
That is totally insane for your parents to do that! Even though they want you to succeed in life threatening to throw you out wont help you in any way succeed in life >.> As for your friend and his parents I just dont know what to say to that but...Daaaaaamn
TrunksXV
6 years, 2 months ago
Well Shippo, I would recommend you put some distance between yourself and your "friend" growing up today is frankly impossible because of all the social engineering we've undergone with the television. My advice to you and her is to stop watching TV for a few weeks and see the difference in your cognitive abilities. Go and seek out God's help if you can, the best way to deal with people who are hard to live with is to think the way God would.
Shippo
6 years, 2 months ago
I for one believe in God but Im not a fanatical religious type and in my opinion we will never ever be able to think like God because God is God and we should never try to think like he does.

Also here is a Conundrum(or however the hell the word is spelt XD me refuses to look it up right now XDD ) In the bible Incest is supposed to be a sin under Gods eyes IF this is true than we will all go to hell when we die we wont go to heaven...  Why?  Because if we are to believe as the bible states that Adam and Eve were the first humans God ever made than they had sex obviously so therefore Adam and Eve's children would of had sex with each other or one of their parents because there are no other humans and that there makes it where we are all blood related.   Whether you believe this to be true or not is not up to me.  Anyways I will take your suggestion under consideration. Thank you for your time.
JackVanGraff
6 years, 2 months ago
You should have others that are yours and your "friend's" friend and have a group sit down discussion.  Often times hearing something from just one person will send them to instant defensive and angry mode, which sucks!  But I'm sure if you can organize a way to gently tell your "friend" with the help and support of other friends, what you all see they do is unacceptable, your "friend" assuming a sane, reasonable and understanding human being should see what you see.  And if not then maybe it's better if your "friend" simply didn't come over until they learned basic house rules, and open acceptance among Friends!  

Although to be honest it seems your "friend" isn't worth all that trouble...  and in that case consider these scenarios and weigh them accordingly.  Life without your "friend", or life with your "friend" with their current behavior.  Best of luck Shippo!  Hope there can be a resolve with the least amount of stress.
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