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Bluewag

Got a problem?

Heya.

So it's recently come to my attention that some people have a problem with me. Whatever, fine. I'm under no illusion that everyone on the planet is going to like me. That even 10% of the people I meet are going to like me. That's fine.

But if you have a fuckin' problem with me, I'd infinitely prefer you coming to speak about it to me instead of to your friends so you can all have a little gossip about whatever I did that wronged you. Publicly, privately, I don't really care. If you value the acquaintanceship/friendship/whatevership, come and talk to me about it instead of being incredibly cowardly and just be icy and evasive.

And yeah, okay, this happened TONIGHT but I'm not referring specifically to this person, because this has been a pattern in my life for a while. If you have a problem with me, grow a pair of balls and actually talk to me about it.

kthx,
 -Flynn

P.S. This person tonight had the gall to outright reject an offer to renew the friendship. And on my birthday. Wow, fandom. Just wow. You are so fucking classy to the people who commission you.
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Added: 11 years, 7 months ago
 
trashbunny
11 years, 7 months ago
Statistically speaking, whether someone's considered a part of the fandom or not ultimately has nothing to do with them being a dick or not. Anyhow, I support your opinion, because it sucks when someone's going out of the way like this.
Bluewag
11 years, 7 months ago
I appreciate the support. I feel pretty slighted by it, and I think for good reason.
Lyserdigi
11 years, 7 months ago
I must have missed something flynn dear...
Also --> miss you, we/I even sang 'happy birthday' to you on skype and all,
but you are never around anymore *sniffs*
*nuzzles*
Bluewag
11 years, 7 months ago
Sorry. And thank you! I'm easiest to reach through individual messages, though. I'm not too active in that group chat.
Lyserdigi
11 years, 7 months ago
well....
#Happy brithday too youuu
  Happy birthday toooo youuuuuu
  Happy Biiirthdayyy beloooved Flyyy-yyyn(sie)
  Happy birthday tooooooo, youuuuuuu
                                                           uuuu
                                                                   uuuuu#
*Brings you some strawberry cream cake*
-"Creamed it myself ^^"
Lyserdigi
11 years, 7 months ago
ps. we miss you on that chat... and greet you everytime we see you pop online =^..^=
     I/we also understand and accept that you are feeling down, and thus have not pressured you in any way to participate..
     We just want you to know, we are always there for you, whenever you need some cheering up, or just to say hello :)
*nuzzlehugs*
mWolf
11 years, 7 months ago
Why is there so much idiotic hate in today's world?!?!
There is no reason to be hating on you, or anyone for that matter >:[
I'm sorry that you have to go through this, Flynn. Maybe, someday,
this unnamed character will grow a pair and learn how to use them correctly.

*hugs* Feliz Cumpleaños, Flynn! I hope your day got lots better after that happened.
Bluewag
11 years, 7 months ago
I guess be careful about getting on people's radar. They like to shark your journals and journal replies for anything they can throw back in your face at a later date, I've noticed. Kind of a shame, really. I liked these people.
Shokuji
11 years, 7 months ago
Ack. >_<; [hugs] Hope this gets the message across. Sorry it happened on your birthday. =/ Try to feel better, Flynn.
Bluewag
11 years, 7 months ago
Well, I went looking for the answers. The answers I didn't have problems with. What I had problems with was the response to my question "Do you want to try and still be friends?"
Shokuji
11 years, 7 months ago
That sucks, but at the same time it's better to know now and cut your losses. Take care of yourself and message me anytime. [hugs]
Bluewag
11 years, 7 months ago
I try to, but I don't see you online much. Actually, you're a person I'd like to talk to about this. Not hecause I think you're like this, but because you've had similar experiences.
Shokuji
11 years, 7 months ago
Yeah, I'm sorry about that, have been busy IRL with visitors and such. How about you send me a PM or email (shokuji@gmail.com)? I checked for you on IMs as I typed this and didn't see you online, but I'm sure we'll link up sometime. [hug]
Bluewag
11 years, 7 months ago
Yeah, I'm toing ziplining for my birthday. But I'll be around later tonight of you're on.
Skunket
11 years, 7 months ago
actually 99% havent balls :3... is more easy to block msn/skype/others.

those kind of "people" are cowards, but u have real friends and no just trash.
Bluewag
11 years, 7 months ago
Well, some people are okay with just keeping the status quo and don't want to rock the boat by putting shit out there. I am most definitely and unapologetically a boat rocker.
Skunket
11 years, 7 months ago
Nice to know... and now understand what are u into... ^^ *hugs*
zeran
11 years, 7 months ago
damn missed your bday ^^' oh well happy belated b-day
Bluewag
11 years, 7 months ago
Better late than never! Thanks!!!!
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