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Kogie

tell me if you can understand this

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Ok honestly tell me if you can understand this.

My mom wants me to babysit my nephews from time to time. my mom wants me to. She wants me to play with my nephews from time to time. She wants me to take them out with me and tay on our walks from time to time. Yet when it comes down to me having ot fuss at them or punish them or anything else I an adult watching 2 kids needs to do. I am not allowed to do that. Why How am I to watch them right if I can not punish them or tell them no they can't do such and such or even tell them yes they can do such and such.

I say this because I packed 10 smokes this morning in hopes of getting me though the whole day seeing as we got a lot to do. I sat them down inside in a empty cig pack. I have only smoked 2 yet there are only 6 left in the pack. So that means 2 where taken. I asked my mom first about them she said no. I asked my brother second about them HE said NO. I then asked Tay about them and guess what HE SAID NO. So that only leave the children. so I approach them about it tell them that I will not yell or scream and that they would not get punished or grounded if they return them to ether me or Tay with in the next 4 hours. 4 FUCKING HOURS. my BROTHER there DAD is standing behind me when I say this. which means if he did not agree with it he COULD of said something, but no he just stood there. So when I turn around to tell my mom what I said with my brother behind me. She fucking bitch's at me for doing that and it not my place. Dose my brother say anything to defend me HELL FUCKING NO.

SO where along the line dose this work. you want me to help with the little shits YET I am not allowed to correct them or tell them things. So someone SOMEONE please tell me how the fuck this works. Because I sure as hell do not understand.
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Added: 6 years, 5 months ago
 
Shokuji
6 years, 5 months ago
Sounds like a problem waiting to happen. I mean, what if you're out and about on a walk or whatever and they do something that -really- should be reprimanded? Like what if they called another person names or hit them? Are you just supposed to stand there and say nothing? What if they ran out in the street like derps and almost got hit by a car and died? Still can't say anything? Seems flawed to me. I'd tell her that if you're not allowed to reasonably punish them for things they've done wrong then it's too risky and uncomfortable for you to be around them anymore.
Kogie
6 years, 5 months ago
Yep I am allowed to stand there and watch them die
yiharbin
6 years, 5 months ago
that seems really screwed up, man
Kogie
6 years, 5 months ago
Thats because it is
EroKord
6 years, 5 months ago
I don't want to cause stress at your abode, but if it were me, next time I was asked to look after them I'd remind my mom "it's not my place."

If she didn't get it I'd explain it to her in simpler terms that if I'm the Adult in charge, I'm going to take care of them, and that includes reasonable scolding if they do something wrong, or ASKing them about it if I THINK something's wrong.
If I'm NOT the Adult in charge, then why are you even asking me?
Kogie
6 years, 5 months ago
Oh me and her had it out a second time and I got the same results that I always get. if I want to keep a roof over my head I better do what I am asked to do
EroKord
6 years, 5 months ago
It always sucks being dependent on someone with less sense than yourself to continue living.
Of course the alternative is just as soul crushing unless you're extremely lucky to get a job that is fulfilling.
Kogie
6 years, 5 months ago
I am not going to put me and my mate out on the streets. it is not going to happen. I will suffer and deal with all that I must to keep him protected
JadeBleufox
6 years, 5 months ago
I call BS.

If I let my brother watch my son, I will be like, ''Hey, if he gives you any trouble..treat him like you would your own.''

A child needs consistancy in thier discipline, if they dont they can be trouble later on in life. Just sayin'.
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