im all for making your own interent experience safe and comfortable for yourself and others and id never do anything to harm someone on purpose, but i think it might be difficult to expect every single person you meet both online and irl to know about every rule and intricacy you have about talking with you or even just being seen by you. im not saying youre wrong or anything, definitely not, but im just saying you cant expect everyone to know and remember all these things. I know youre making these things clear to avoid that, but im just worried how youll manage to keep using the internet and even just seeing things irl that upset you that much. idrk anything about you im just some rando but i just hope youll be okay. Im sorry if that sounds weird coming from a complete stranger. but best of luck to you and i hope you wont have to deal with anything unsavory in the future
im all for making your own interent experience safe and comfortable for yourself and others and id n
I'm a cheeky bastard, these guidelines are there so I can point out that they were neglected when they are neglected. The reason why I make such a huge effort to let people know is that as a consequence, the only way they get ignored or violated is if: A - person cares enough to contact me or comment on my stuff... but not enough to actually read my stuff, showing laziness... or B - person disagrees with these guidelines enough to disrespect them despite knowing about them, showing hostility.
It helps alert me who is what, and what to expect from each individual. People who say "I've read your journals and I understand" and then keep being friendly and respectful do exist, which is very nice and I'm very thankful for that. So far I only had a single hostile one that broke a guideline on purpose, but they did it once and vanished, so that doesn't seem to be too much of a problem.
Also don't worry, it's not like it breaks my soul when people do that. I'm a big boy, I've been through this stuff, I know how to protect myself, I have trained instincts for that. What violating my guidelines actually does is reveal something about the nature of who violated them, and I intend that to be how it works.
I'm a cheeky bastard, these guidelines are there so I can point out that they were neglected when th
ah okay, thats good to hear! glad no ones harassing you now also a bit off topic but sometimes people end up commenting on something without going through the whole person's profile or gallery not because of laziness, but just some people dont have the energy to do that. i get really socially exhausted easily and even if im not directly speaking to someone, focusing a lot of time on a person makes me tired. i hope that doesnt sound rude or anything, i dont mean to be, but idk some things are harder for people to do i guess, haha. i might just be super introverted tho i dont know about others
ah okay, thats good to hear! glad no ones harassing you now also a bit off topic but sometimes peopl
