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stormlust

The healing process

now some of you may see this title and say storm what do you mean by this and for that we will start at the beginning of all of this.



some 10+ years ago while playing combat arms i had met someone who became my best friend almost every night we would play combat arms to gather and we would have a blast. but we then drifted apart for a few years then came back to playing combat arms to gather again, until we drifted apart again. then 3 years ago i started playing warface an fps i found on steam that was free and i remembered all the fun times i had with my one friend and how much fun it was having him to play fps with was so i reached back out to him on steam and mentioned it as he was still on my list and we started to play to gather again then about a month or so into gaming to gather again he brought in a friend to join in on the fun, this person and i didnt really get along once he found out i was a furry. but things started to go down hill. my friend whom use to be fun to hang with started to change and got alot meaner than he had ever use to be, there would be times where he would go afk and me and the other guy would talk and his name would get mentioned and then id end up getting off cause i had to go to sleep for work leaving this other guy waiting for my friend to return. when id wake up the fallowing morning id see a bunch of angry messages  from him he would be pissed off and angry at me and he would threaten to have me banned on shit but we would work it out, this would happen a few more times with the same outcome but as time went on things happened in his life and he had no income but from the help of some one id never met before, but every so often he would say not to talk about food as he didnt have any then one day my inner nice side came up and offered him some money so he could order some food and i did this every so often i had some spare money. then those fights i talked about earlier started happening again and it go to the point where the old way we fixed it wasnt working so to avoid getting bans on games i offered a fixed amount of money and it fixed the fight like that. then the summer of that first year came and he was talking about moving to a new place and at the time my parents where being a bit insufferable and i couldnt take it so we discussed the possibility of rooming to gather but at the time i wasnt ready money wise  had a big debt on my card and some on paypal to work off. but the day he was going to look at the new place i assumed it was just that as he was getting mad when he would message me and i would not answer so i just said ok turns out he was signing for the place. which he did and when he told me he did i was like shit in my head im not ready and i chickened out but was to afraid to tell him i didnt want to do this any more, so here we are hes 2k deposit on an apartment and now paying for something he couldnt afford on his own and ive chickened out, and every so often it would come up he would say you still want to room to gather right and instead of saying no i just said yes. well it a few weeks down the road i offered to slowly pay back the 2k for the deposit  as i felt that was the right thing to do but he objected and said id be paying back what ever the price was if he didnt get a roommate to take my spot which i thought he was looking for, time went and gone and he had to move to his next place and there is a 20k debt on me now cause he got no roommate. so i slowly gave him some money every paycheck was much like 45 dollars cause that was all i could afford to give then i slowly stopped giving him the money my guess was i thought i didnt need to do this so i just stopped. then a few months later he got on his high horse and said i would be paying in 50 dollars every week by a set date or i would have bans handed to me on every game i played most of which was on steam. so i caved and did it as he said he had an admin on his friends list who would handle the bans so i went with it and did it i hated doing it but i did it i didnt want to lose all my games for life. so things just kept going down hill every day i had to be on by 730pm  though it wasnt long though  as id be going to bed at 9 cause i had work in the morning  unless it was the days off then i had to be on by noon left no time to get up and wank or sleep in so id have to get up at 11am just to get one out before he came calling at noon. this went on for a long while, games and other stuff we played changed then came the wow classic release during the time before that i learned that he had a big file of game debt on me and lots of other people and a deal was struck that if i played 2 years of wow classic he would delete that debt from my records so i took my time and leveled slowly cause i didnt like wow it just wasnt for me and thats when he said the deal was 2 years of end game wow which i just wasnt gonna make cause i was leveling slow as balls. so he dragged me along as he went to kill stuff to help get me levels faster and during our grinding time we ran into a few and a chick joined the crew and she ended up staying and joining in and chatted with us in voice. as a few weeks went by the other guy was removed as he and the chick didnt get along and he liked having her around by december w latter on in the month we had a big fight and falling out he was threating to come after me for all the money i owed him and i was gonna lose all my games. at the i was done or so i though he came back a few days later saying this chick had begged him to give me another chance and gave me a list to agree to which i did and in a few weeks id come back and we would be playing games to gather again. so its now the beginning of this year  we just start hearing about covid and im still on my own and its getting worse and we have hit lockdown mode having trouble being able to get extra shifts in to cover my own bills i was unable to affored the payments i was making to for my debt and among other things when he reached out to bring me back into the fold to play with him again i had mentioned my problems and there was no way i could keep this up and needed help  as if i just stopped making the payments i would have been hit with a hammer and lost stuff so i spoke with him and asked for help basically i wanted the option to pay what i could until the covid thing was gone and i got that but it didnt last long when my job went back on the 2 weeks on 2 weeks off group thing to try and help keep people safe so if one group had a person get it the other could sub in people to replace the work force if needed. but it eneded and per words from his friend i was back to work as normal which i wasnt i was still having a hard time finding extra hours to work to help make my payments as the weekly payments where 70(for got to mention it went up to 70 a week back in 2019) but things where not that great for me. my debt was out of control and i couldnt afford the payments between my card and paypal and him so i took my mom up on an offer she made and she paid off my debt and i just had to pay her back. during that time something had happened that was like a big 2k problem that was considered my fault i believe it was like a missed appointment or something but i got forced to pay it or get banned so i did and slowly more issues came up and my pal went from being 0 to maxed say about aug time frame. during this time he had an appoinment he couldnt get a ride to so i offred and took off work to take him and thats when we first met i sowly brought him food items and stuff  cause he was always ordering out food, then he got a new apparement which i offered to help move some things so he didnt have to worrie about them breaking cause of movers it took 3 days before he was ready for me to help him move, the 2 days before each had a reason to why we couldnt do it, be being in a different state that him i was at his whim and it finally happened i helped move a few boxes and his computer to his new place and what not. each time id come up to vist and or hang out id use my card to pay for food items for him and what not to help lessen my debt mostly gaming debt which he had converted it to a different system and it made the game debt event bigger because of this but i helped get stuff for him and his cat as well as using it to pay debts payments (some on me cause i didnt have money and stuff when i needed things). then came the i broke his computer issues where i had to pay and replace all the broken parts stuiped me not wanting to get hit with a hammer or anyother threats he made if i didnt i agreed to do so. so about 700 went to a new case that ended up being broken and and not wanting to deal with amazon saying they would not take it back cause of covid stuff i just threw it out, but i spent atleats 1500 on new parts for his pc would have been more if we didnt have the credit from the warranty on his old parts. the first night putting everything to gather i didnt leave until 2am and i had work in the morning  as he wouldnt let me leave until we got it working  but he finally did as i said i would come back to morrow and help him some more. the next day when i show up  he said it was a case problem and we needed a different case as he needed his computer set up that night so he could take care of stuff so add another 100 something on to my card for a case we found at a computer store (some one didnt do there research on the case to see about 90% of the cases that i paid for threw amazon came broken) so i get everything set up in the new case as im no tech person i only knew very little, everything gets set up turns on and has power so we take it to his desk get it all plugged in and i leave and head home i get about half way home when he calls me saying i keeps shutting off and its not working and that i needed to come back. i then told him that i could not there was no way for me to turn around and do this( i didnt want to be stuck there tell 2 am again if that happened), he then tells me im gonna be stuck with a 6k bill for a missed appointment if i dont turn around and come back and help find and fix the issues, but i stuck to my guns and said i couldnt and he  hangs up i get home and my mom wants to have a chat so we are chatting and he calls my phone so i answer it in the same room as my mother and hes going off on me  saying how i need to come back and fix this now (apparently there where others listening in on the other line but i only remember hearing one voice which was his) one thing lead to another and ended in a shouting match between my mother saying stuff and apparently fuck you (i dont remember her ever saying that) but i said id call him back and hug up, as things where getting out of hand. got a bit mad cause my mother got involved but what can you do. the fallowing day i was told i now owe his friend 1400 as he claims i didnt remove plastic from one of the case windows and it cause a mess and his friend paid for the most pricey cpu out there, and if i didnt want any hammers i had to pay a form of tribute to him and i had to rain my mother in spent the better part of 2 hours  getting her to agree to stay out of stuff that evolved him and me, the tribute i suggested id pay was the rtx3080 took me a few days to snag one but i did. it was then pointed out that the power supply in the pc wasnt strong enough to support the 3080 and atleast a 1k watt power was needed so what did dumb me do i went and bought the 1600 watt power supply, i also had to go out and buy a new radiator as apprently the one in the pc wasnt working right and there would be no way the warranty would cover it so i did  that even had to use the warranty on the  new cpu cause there had been heating issues and i had to pay for the new warranty. so fast forward a few months he says to me the amount im paying is going up to 100 a week and im protesting all of this as i cant affaord that at all, only cause he had to take out a loan and needed to up the amount i paid to help him cover his loan (though i still kept paying the 70). then things started to go south having no cash advance to use on my card and being fined money i was forced to send him money over steam got 300 before i was unable to send more so the rest which totaled  to 600 came out in gift cards. as things kept getting worse he then came to me and said because i pulged his mouse into the wrong slot it broke and i had to replace it which happens to be a mouse that logitech discontinued  so that was gonna cost me close to 600 but he found a cheap one on amazon and i sent him the 150 in an amazon e gift card and the link he sent me as i think he was to lazy to look for it him self now i saw used and i wasnt gonna say shit as its far better than paying close to 600 for a new one. the new mouse arrives and hes already in bitch mode complaining cause its used and he wont use used stuff cause of covid so at some point i suggested looking for a temp mouse until i could afforded the new one, well turns out the one he said would work wasnt working for him and he went back to his broken one. during this short time i had helped him clean his apartment 3 different times as well as provided food to him threw doordash as he cut his hand on a spatula that i got him as a gift and he had told me if i didnt the insurance company would come after me as well as the company who made the spatual he cut him self on if they found out so i did. so now we are at a few weeks ago im at his place and i notice is air filters have red lights on them showing need replacement he then tries to ring me in to replace those which i waited tell i made a payment on my pal then turned around and spent the payment i just put down on him so he could replace one of the two towers, but what does he go and do he stress eats and orders sushi and uses the money that was supposed to replace filters on one tower  on sushi. thats around the time i made that post asking for help (i feel stupide for asking now) but as things went on, we are now last wednesday  he had asked me to be at his place by 6am i woke up at 5am and was rushing to get out the door  i tried to call him to give him my eta and left him a discord message as well which he said its to late ive already taken stuff to go to sleep, im half way there and he does  this shit so i spent from 6 am to about 7 pm ish in my car waiting on his ass to wake up so i can help him clean and prep for his apartment inspection as well as a pest spray as he had to have everything off cleaned off and out of cupboards and closets or they would kick him out on the spot. so 7pm was spent going to target getting 2 cases of water milk and 4 6pack colas and a tub to put stuff in so he would be ready, what happens to me as he cant carry shit cause he has a bad back and other shit wrong with him(incase i didnt mention) i had to do it and i pulled a muscle in my back as that tub was very heavy. but we did no cleaning as he wasnt in the mood for it and was claming his back was bothering him and he just wanted me to go home and we deal with it later well when i got home  i got an earful from my mom and he was on discord talking in voice with the chick while streaming watchdogs (the new one) so she could watch so its midnight and he kept saying we would do it tomorrow which to me ment friday as it was thursday to him it ment today. he got off to sleep and i didnt hear from him until late again and he got mad but i said i could be there by 6 am but id have to leave no later than 7 am so i had time to get to work. it took him tell 617 to get down stairs to let my ass in so we could start cleaning and preping i called out of work as it took me tell about 830 to get everything done as he wasnt much help or something touched something and it had to be cleaned and he took his sweet time doing it. so i called out cause i was just gonna have to come back up as he was gonna be out of the aparment for a few hours and wanted me around so we could go sit at a resturant or something untill they where done and it was safe for him to come back in. during this time a small fight broke out between him and his friend and the people who where supposed to come had not turns out according to him his friend was doing something which was gonna get him kicked out or so he says unless i agreed to his terms of paying 70 a week to my former friend for the debt i owed and every two weeks id pay his friend 200 for the debt i owe him(acording to my friend he exchanged money for some of my debt) other shit got worked out that i agreed to but it changed my debt to being like 50K in total if u add in the game debt he would throw at me almost everyday for dumb reason. so we finally left and we waited it out we then went to look at another mouse to see if they had it as that was to be the new temp replacement until i had the money for the new  600 dollar mouse(for got to mention i also had to pay for a switch and a pokemon game but that was not done yet as i had time on those) so he finds one that will work i only wanted to get one as  i didnt want to spend the money on 2 but i got talked into it by him so we are back at his place we unpack a few things and he goes to test the mice and i go home. during my ride home i join the discord call he stared with the chick and hes going on about the day and starts to lie taking something i said and changing it making her believe i wanted to see her nude and stuff. this eventually lead to him saying get out of my chat as he was saying i was gonna be paying 6k at the dentist appointment  i was to take him to on monday for causing one of his teeth to chip. so fast forward im now home having a chat with my mom told her some of the things i was told by him and my aunt was brought into the convo (phone called in) as she knew i wasnt gonna believe her and slowly but surely as i told my aunt everything i had been told by him threw out the year and she opened my eyes showed me what none of what he said could happen and if it did the courts would laugh him out and throw it out during this time he begins to blow up my phone non stop repeated calls after seeing him for whom he really was a lieing sack of shit whom uses people and scams them out of money. so i finally had it and answered and told him i was done he asked what i ment and i said i was done and he hung up right as my mom chimed in cause i did it in front of her. from friday night around 11 pm when he started my phone was non stop ringing i changed his ring tone and ended was able to sleep and for some of my work i couldnt watch shit on my phone cause he kept calling so when i finnally had it i set it to airplane mode then took it off when i had though he had stopped which he didnt as he kept spaming me on discord and i wasnt sure at the time how he was doing it when he and i are not friends on there any more he even had the chick spaming me and she wasnt on my friends list either, he even gave her my number and i spent blocked that one as she spent in one day calling me over 177 times.but each txt message or voice mail he left me or discord message i saw more of his lies and how brainwashed he had me, he tried to guilt trip me saying he was gonna be no more if he didnt make that dent appointment on monday and when none fo that work he shifted to a fake crying voice mail to the ultimate fail going back threw an places i had chatted with him and edited his responses to make it look like i sexually harassed him good thing discord shows when a message is edited so if he took it to court he fail and be laughed at and prob fined for wasting the judges time. the last message i had from him was sunday when he said he was doing as his mother said and was blocking me and i was gonna be seeing him in court for harassment and rent scam, i looked up the last one to see what it intailed and i didnt do that so another fail if it goes to court. but his things was he was gonna do this if i agreed to keep paying him which was never gonna happen then changed to if i agreed to 2 conditions which he never listed but ive removed him from my life.

so now i start the my remover mentally physically and money wise(to much money just to try and get back what he scammed me out of and made me pay under duress)  but i will not turn down any one who does wish to help me  but im not openly asking for it.


ps if you happen to hear any one talking trash about me please let me know i would need the game and user name of the person doing it so i know and can do what needs to be done to shut them up and removed from the game.
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