I seriously don't like to publicly talk about my life like this but this could be the end of my art, I thought I'd give an explaination in the event I disappear....
Long story short; I've dated a girl in 2017 for a few months. She started throwing rules and restrictions and conditions at me, I didn't want to follow almost any of them. She resorted to shaming insults and shit-talking about everything I did unless I submitted to her, mainly my art and how stupid and unsustainable it is. I ended up leaving her shortly after that.
Early on December of 2018 she contacted me again saying how she regretted treating me like that and that she's now depressed and suicidal without me because she changed her mind about me and wanted to get back together. I am now suddenly "the best thing that ever happened to her". I told her off again.
She also noted a great number of people who are connected to me to stay away from me. Screenshots: https://i.imgur.com/8yt30VA.png
Few days before new year, she found out where I live and waited for days in a row by my building until I came out by chance so she could talk to me in person, she kept hugging me, showering me with compliments and begged me to "be with her one final time" really quickly and promised I'd never have to see her again after that... I told her off yet again.
The day after new year I was accused of threatening her life and sexually assaulting her multiple times throughout our brief relationship. All the burden of proof is on me to dispute everything she says. I'm terrified that my art can be used against me to prove "what a freak" I am in her favor but I also don't want to delete any of my stuff because I really have nothing to hide...
I can't think right now.. I don't know what to do....
For obvious reasons, all content is now on hold...
I tried reporting her twice before the accusation at the end of last year, the first time they didn't even want to take my case because I was a "wimp who can't handle a girl messaging him" But they punched and tackled me down to the ground when they came to me when she accused me. I don't know why this is so one-sided...
I tried reporting her twice before the accusation at the end of last year, the first time they didn'
sounds to me like you have more than enough evidence to get her arrested for stalking and aggravated harassment. as for them punching you to the ground, that's police brutality and you can and should bring that up to the state.
sounds to me like you have more than enough evidence to get her arrested for stalking and aggravated
I'm sorry this is happening to you. I had once heard from someone that people can sue for anything but when it found out what people can sue for, I never knew that they mean literally everything. Who ever this girl is, she's the one whose at fault. I will admit that what she's doing is spreading lies and slander about you as it appears she's doing this out of vengeful spite and I have seen and herd about this many times and I will agree people who do this to good people, it's wrong. I hope you win.
I'm sorry this is happening to you. I had once heard from someone that people can sue for anything b
You need to report this to the cops ASAP. But keep in mind, that you’d need to have strong evidence to support your claims against her. You could definitely get her for Stalking and Aggravated Harassment. Those two offenses often go hand and hand. Depending on where you live, those are potentially felonys depending on the context of the harassment and how much detriment it has caused you, but usually the two Stalking offenses are generally misdemeanors, as well as the Aggravated Harassment charges as well.
In substance, if a stalker repeatedly communicates with you or follows you for no legitimate purpose knowing (or she should know) the great distress and material impact it will have on your well-being, mental health, physical safety and even career, you will likely have the ability to protect yourself inside and outside the criminal justice system.
An arrest of your extorter or harasser and an Order of Protection may be the only way to stop her, but it is critical to understand your options first.
If you don't want to go directly to the police, I would find a lawyer ASAP and give them everything you know about her and the evidence you submitted here. Don't act rashly and delete emails, texts, PM's, messages, etc. Don't merely react and block your extorter. Don't acquiesce to criminal demands for money with the hope that if you are compliant life will return to normal.
Stepping away from any law enforcement or pseudo law enforcement involvement, your lawyer, along with investigators and former detectives, can take on the role of prosecutor to best terminate the threats and ongoing campaign of terror in a discrete manner. A cease and desist "memo" and visit from investigators can be extremely persuasive while limiting public exposure.
At the same time, because your attorneys and former detectives have either developed or put together a case based on controlled calls, wiring you up," a review of text or email records and statements from your abuser, should you decide to go to law enforcement our counsel can potentially bring a packaged case directly to a prosecutor or to the Family Court. Equally important, you remain in control of the case, not a detective or the District Attorney, only providing the same to law enforcement should your extorter or harasser remain non-compliant.
Another route to stop Harassment is for your lawyer to file a Family Offense Petition for a Restraining Order. While such a petition does not have criminal consequences to your menacer, a mechanism exists to secure a Family Court Order of Protection without an arrest. That said, since your abuser has been in some form of relationship with you, there will be a potentially public proceeding even if far more limited than that in a Criminal Court.
Protect yourself by arming yourself with knowledge to ultimately win, since you're not in the wrong here. Things like this are like playing a game of chess. She's moved her pieces, now it's time you moved yours in response. Set your side of the board up.
I'm sorry this is happening to you, but good luck and I hope everything turns out alright.
You need to report this to the cops ASAP. But keep in mind, that you’d need to have strong evidence
