I am having a frustrating time with a friend of mine. He's been my friend since 3rd grade...up til now my best friend.
Last Thursday (Halloween Eve), he was staying over while I went to work. While I was at work, he logged-on to my laptop cause somehow he figured out or knew my password. (I've already changed that.) As he was on, he decided to snoop around my pictures (both just random pictures saved from the net and photos of my girlfriend)...he also checked my browser history. He then took it upon himself to "cleanse" my laptop of the "filth" even stuff from my folder of photos of my girlfriend. I confronted him about it, crying cause he broke my trust and invaded my privacy and he had the gall to say neither of those matter, he did what he had to do to cleanse his bro and his bro's stuff. I told him that he was risking a long-time friendship by not acknowledging his wrong-doing and not apologizing for it.
Today, he challenged me to a video game (one of which he always wins) to prove who was right...and said it will be in 2 weeks from Friday at neutral territory...neutral territory being his church, his MORMON church.
I really don't want to cut off our friendship...but he is making hard not to. If he just used my laptop and hadn't snooped, I wouldn't be so mad. If he hadn't deleted anything, I could forgive him for the invasion of privacy to a degree without an apology...
Any advice?
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9 years, 5 months ago
05 Nov 2014 01:55 CET
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