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ButtercupSaiyan

Took care of one thing, the main thing on my mind

I called the Abuse hotline and made a report... they said they're going to get help for my mother and not to worry about Kaitlyn being sent off somewhere else, she'll stay in the care of friends and family while my mother is taken care of—at a hospital not jail.

I don't know what else to say.

I'm just glad it's taken care of. I know it's not over, and I had to call like 5 other crisis hotlines just to figure out what to do... they were like "Who is the victim?" and I was like, "It's not deliberate, but my mother is a victim of herself and I want to prevent something worse." =(
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Added: 7 years, 2 months ago
 
liontaro
7 years, 2 months ago
I hope she'll get the help she needs so it will all be okay at your place :C
and as long as your sister will stay in the care of friends you don't have to worry so much. *hugs*
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Thanks for your support, K.
DMajorBoss
7 years, 2 months ago
Oh my...indeed, I hope that all gets settled well from all of this, and that the necessary help makes her a better person.  I'm also glad that Kaitlyn will be safe and sound too.

*Hugs*

You know that, if you need me, I'm here for you.  If you want to talk more about it all, let me know.
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
You're close enough in Carolina that I expect that if I need your help, I could get it in about 42 hours, is that right, Dondi?

To be honest, I've been using Polk State College whenever I need to meet someone or have something shipped, and I use the vault as my physical address. For most of the work week, that's where I am during the day anyway...  first thing I need to do is replace my cell phone. :<
DMajorBoss
7 years, 2 months ago
Though I currently don't have a car right now, I could potentially be of some sort of service in about 2 days time, give or take.

Something happened to the cell phone already, Ashley?  Oh my...quite the interesting tide of events that seem to be coming your way.  I do think I once had your original address once, however...I'd have to double check to see.
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Didn't I mention that my mother sabotaged my cell phone... she thought I was going to call the police... yes, it is INCREDIBLY illegal to prevent someone from calling the police when they feel abused or threatened and with just cause.

Is your car in the shop?
DMajorBoss
7 years, 2 months ago
Ah, I didn't know that she sabotaged it, actually.  When we had last talked, it was on your cell.

As for the car, I don't have one at all at the moment.  It's one of the things I'm trying to obtain for myself.
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
As for me, I am going to eventually take a three day motorcycle course in the evening and buy a used scooter and get my motorcycle license.

Between that and my new haircut and cross-dressing, my mom would have a fit. =__= Also, men's clothes are fucking cheap. $4 for a shirt and $8 for shorts and $12 for pants? Goodbye, women's department...
DMajorBoss
7 years, 2 months ago
Heheh, nice clothes for good prices, that's for sure.

^_^

Anyway, I wish you luck on these courses!
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Well, a small moped doesn't require them but I need to find one for sale locally.
Zeikcied
7 years, 2 months ago
I'm glad your sister is okay and that your mom will hopefully get the help she needs.
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Here's hoping.
ShadowsInc
7 years, 2 months ago
Well, at least you got things sorted out for the time being.
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Kind of. I don't have many groceries, I ran out of food tonight and the fridge is mostly expired... this is a problem... at least the can opener works.
ShadowsInc
7 years, 2 months ago
Kind of my problem at the moment... I'm at a loss for money, so I figured I might open some commission slots if anyone wants something from me.
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
I use my commission money to commission other artists too...

I kind of suck at this...

I still remember Zone offering to help me with HentaiKey and if I get my own place, that is looking more and more tempting if I can get a new Wacom tablet for my laptop.
ShadowsInc
7 years, 2 months ago
HentaiKey sounds like a great deal... I'm not near good enough to get on there, but someday I will.
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
I'll split any payment I get with you 25%/45% if you'll be my "tweenist" ... I do frame-by-frame animation a lot more than Zone does, but it's hard work and I tend to do keyframing mostly.

Given the minimal amount of animation, this took way too long to do... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jT8_4kyNaHQ
ShadowsInc
7 years, 2 months ago
I could, but are you looking for "colored" inbetweens? Because I'm not great at coloring at the moment ^^; (if I had lots of time, I can do cool stuff though)... Otherwise I could see what I could do. ;3
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Do you have a copy of Flash?
ShadowsInc
7 years, 2 months ago
I have the newest version of Flash, Flash Professional CS5.5.
I got one of the newest suites just recently made for Media design, So my entire list includes (but is not limited to) :
Photoshop CS5 Extended
Illustrator CS5
InDesign CS5.5
Dreamweaver CS5.5
Flash Professional CS5.5
Flash Catalyst CS5.5
Fireworks CS5
and Acrobat X Pro....

I can pretty much do anything media related (even if I'm new to some of the programs). I also have other programs like Paint Tool SAI and junk...
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Sounds about like me, though Catalyst whines that I need Java on my laptop. Better get that done before I leave for work.

Man, the urge to take the day off is strong because Tuesday is my usual day off but I won't...
ShadowsInc
7 years, 2 months ago
(just for shits and giggles) Why'd you ask if I had a copy of Flash?
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Trying to recruit people on my Fanship is Magic team who might be bronies, of course.

I just recently discovered Fimchan.

I expect the moment I put an animated ANYTHING ponies up on Newgrounds or YouTube, this project is going to explode. Which is good if I want to have it done over the summer. =)
ShadowsInc
7 years, 2 months ago
I've never heard of FimChan...
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
nick12212
7 years, 2 months ago
just hang in there. things should get better
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Thanks, they probably will. I'm just still sick and didn't sleep at all last night. Too tense, too upset.
AnoNJG
7 years, 2 months ago
Hopefully, with that weight off your mind, things can start to get better. It can take a while, but it really is worth it.
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
That hasn't happened yet...

I forgot how much the loss of my personal PC deeply affects me in ways I can't immediately explain but saying "my whole life is tied up in my PC" gets pretty close to it. I'm not a hikkikomori but I use it to keep contact with all my friends and all my business ventures.

My mother ended up fucking my schedule more than she knows. I bought a laptop tonight and having to start from scratch has me raging all over again. I don't even have my camera or my tablet and someone left all my art supplies in the other car, fuck my life. Seriously.
tsunderelightning
7 years, 2 months ago
You did the right thing, love.  I'm sure that's small comfort but that's the best I can manage with... her.
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Thanks. I will be checking in Monday with the case worker to see if shit got done.
ruink
7 years, 2 months ago
my mom has a "postal moment" that happens every summer andafter all of the crazy shit from past years that has taken place, we have some alternatives for her to boot.  either way, I will wish better feelings in the future
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
Oh? Is it around a certain day or holiday that reminds her of past stuff?
ruink
7 years, 2 months ago
around this time, but we can handle it
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
That reminds me, I can do digital commissions now. Er. I should update my page about that, shouldn't I?
tenasul
7 years, 2 months ago
ive been an admirer of your art for awhile, saw one of your posts on furaffinity and i was sad to hear what youve been through.  i've been wanting to commission for i think years and now i have the money and time to ask, so i will now that i know you need money.

after reading about all youre problems its good to see somethings are getting fixed though. you solved the situation by getting her help which is the best thing you could have done probably, though it sounds like it would have been hard not to hate her for some of what she's done to you and your sister it may actually fix the problem.  hope you can pull everything else together though, this sounds very hard to deal with.
ButtercupSaiyan
7 years, 2 months ago
I do art for free too... some of my fans are, ahem, probably not credit card age but I never ask and they never tell. I rarely do art trades unless the artist is at my level or only slightly exceeds it.

Do you have any requests?

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